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Female sex tourists: Do they exist?

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Why would the long standing gate keepers of sex suddenly decide to pay the gate toll? Have you ever met a female sex tourist? Women, have you ever been a sex tourist? If not, would you consider it?
12 years ago, February 9th 2009 No: 1 Msg: #62585  
I personally have my doubts that female sex tourists exist beyone the fantasy world of some individuals.

I met a European women who was sort of a sex tourist. Well, she was a conception tourist really. She went to Morocco with the express purpose of becomming pregnant. It happened, and she is now a mother. The Moroccan guy has no clue that he became a father. Reply to this

12 years ago, February 9th 2009 No: 2 Msg: #62587  
It depends on how you define the phrase, but the first things that came into my mind when I read 'female sex tourist' were the groups of British girls that arrive in Spain and Greece every summer and sleep with everyone in sight. I also thought of the young women who emigrate to the United States and Britain but can't stay there indefinitely until they receive an American or British passport - for which the quickest way is to get married to a 'local'.

As for me, I'm in Ukraine, the spiritual home of the male sex tourist, but they creep me out so I try my very best to avoid them.

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12 years ago, February 9th 2009 No: 3 Msg: #62589  

....groups of British girls that arrive in Spain and Greece every summer and sleep with everyone in sight.


I heard that more than once from guys. One would think that there are no men in England. Or do these girls want to give a certain impression when they are at home. Reply to this

12 years ago, February 9th 2009 No: 4 Msg: #62655  
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That morocco story is crazy! I didn't know people did that. Reply to this

12 years ago, February 9th 2009 No: 5 Msg: #62656  

That morocco story is crazy! I didn't know people did that.


Neither did I before I met that woman. Reply to this

12 years ago, February 10th 2009 No: 6 Msg: #62685  
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As far as Asia is concerned, there may be such activities going on. Reply to this

12 years ago, February 10th 2009 No: 7 Msg: #62697  

As far as Asia is concerned, there may be such activities going on.


In what way? Do you mean there are Asian women who pay for sex? Or do you mean there are Asian male prostitutes providing sex for a price to foreign women?
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12 years ago, February 10th 2009 No: 8 Msg: #62700  
B Posts: 74

In what way? Do you mean there are Asian women who pay for sex? Or do you mean there are Asian male prostitutes providing sex for a price to foreign women?



It goes both ways, yes. Due respect to all, these does happen even in Malaysia.
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12 years ago, February 10th 2009 No: 9 Msg: #62708  

It goes both ways, yes.


Why do you think there is a market for male prostitutes in Asia? I mean, why do you think some women would choose to pay for sex? Reply to this

12 years ago, February 11th 2009 No: 10 Msg: #62774  
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Based on a personal contact, there is a demand for such "needs" as there have been a growing number of female tourists traveling these days. As part of their complete vacation, sex is among the agenda. Some agree of sex for fun and some in return for cash. It's also common that some basically pays for sex; either because of fulfilling their sexual urge, indifferences with their current partner, the urge to try something new, or even just as an alternate way of getting away from problems. Reply to this

12 years ago, February 11th 2009 No: 11 Msg: #62820  

Based on a personal contact, .....



What kind of personal contact? Do you mean you had women approach you or a man you know, for sex they will pay for?
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12 years ago, February 12th 2009 No: 12 Msg: #62884  
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A guy I know of. For him, it's basically for the money without any strings attached. Surprised though that he's keeping that as his full time income. Talk about reality. Reply to this

12 years ago, February 12th 2009 No: 13 Msg: #62893  
Does he get many customers? I saw a movie about a male prostitute, but I didnt know they exist for real.

I have heard women say they want to go escort bars or have dates where they pay the guy but many of them seem to be looking for romance rather than sex. ie they want to be with a man who listens to what they say with interest so they feel special.

Makes one wonder about the state of relationships. Are people really having such a hard time getting along that they would prefer to pay for a no strings attached thing than be in a relationship. Reply to this

12 years ago, February 12th 2009 No: 14 Msg: #62896  
Female sex tourists definitely exist. We have seen them in Indonesia with the 'Kuta cowboys' as they are nicknamed and the guys do very well out of it. We have heard numerous women discussing together over dinner how much they would pay the men and which one they would go with that night. We saw this in Turkey too.

I always remember one of my mum's customers telling us about Jamaica and other areas of the Caribbean, north Africa and Kenya where her and her husband used to go on holiday, she always mentioned women sex tourists when talking about these places. This was in the late 1980's.

Sometimes it's not necessarily sex for a handed over fee in the morning, it's sometimes the women paying for food, drinks, a night out in return for sex etc. In our mind female sex tourism has been going on just as long as male sex tourism (in different areas of the world), but the majority of women we have spoken to about this issue don't believe that women would pay for sex. We have seen it so many times - just as often as male sex tourism.

Makes one wonder about the state of relationships. Are people really having such a hard time getting along that they would prefer to pay for a no strings attached thing than be in a relationship.



As Jonathan says it's not really that different to groups of girls going away to Faliraki and shagging anything that moves or women doing it in clubs in their home country. Maybe perceptions of sex and relationships are changing? Reply to this

12 years ago, February 12th 2009 No: 15 Msg: #62937  

As Jonathan says it's not really that different to groups of girls going away to Faliraki and shagging anything that moves or women doing it in clubs in their home country.



I thought those women are just promiscous. I didnt think they would also be giving financially for the ''priviledge'' of having sex with these guys? Reply to this

12 years ago, February 12th 2009 No: 16 Msg: #62938  
I read something in a magazine a while ago about a women in England who used to rent out her husband for dates. The women hired him to take them out for a night. There wasnt sex involved. They just didnt want to go out alone or wait for dates to happen in the usual way, and thought it was well worth paying for dates to happen when they wanted them to happen. Reply to this

12 years ago, February 21st 2009 No: 17 Msg: #63677  
Yes we do have some in China. There's a small city called Lijiang in Yunnan Province always full of tourists for the wonderful landscape there. One of the higulights is an ancient town which is small but amazing. Everynight lots ppl would join the night activities there like killing times in bars or cafes, then things would happen. It's called one night quality time, most time either the man or the woman don't even know each other's real names for ppl would use their web nicknames instead. That city is pretty much wellknown for that. Reply to this

11 years ago, March 24th 2009 No: 18 Msg: #66909  
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Everyone picks on the lonely widower or or divorcee who is a little over the hill and looking for something different by visiting Thailand before he goes to the nursing home back in his home country. Most people overlook the secretaries and office workers and older women who take off for their little forays into exotic areas - year after year!

Phuket is the number one Asian destination for women who look for male companionship - for a price! It is right up there on the list with Africa for European women and some Caribbean locations for N. Americans.

Equal opportunity!

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_sex_tourism#Destinations

http://absolutelybangkok.com/the-female-sex-tourist/

http://www.nomad4ever.com/2006/11/15/the-flavours-of-sex-tourism-in-thailand-and-bali/

Now you know why that prissy secretary just can't wait until she travels to Jamaica or Phuket for her vacation, of course it's only the sunshine she is looking for! More power to her!

The LP must have just omitted Pattaya by mistake. Below is an update just recently released by LP on March 2, 2009.

http://www.lonelyplanet.com/thailand/chonburi-province/pattaya



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