I have to admit I wasn't in top form when I blogged from Rotorua last weekend. I wasn't in a very good hostel and it was also probably the unfriendliest one I'd stayed in to date. I mean, I appreciate some people who travel solo do actually want to be alone, I understand that, but if someone walks into the communial kitchen and says hello (and that's all, I don't cling to people), the least you can do is reciprocate. It reminded me of a discussion with an English guy I met at my hostel in Ahipara a few weeks ago, who was rather wistfully telling me how he had this wonderful idea of sitting around a table in a hostel making new friends, but it hasn't happened. I don't know, are people getting unfriendlier? Anyway,
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