I was in Xian, China with my wife specifically to visit the minature terracotta site called Han Jing Di or Yanling that I had read about in National Geographic.
"No tours" they told me..."But that is why we are here"...so they organized a private driver to take us there...Hao Bin (Robin)...now my Xiondi or younger Chinese brother.
About a month later I was home in Sydney, Australia when the phone rang.
"It is Robin...I am in Melbourne. I want to come to Sydney...can you help me?"
Over dinner in our home I told him how I had tried to get to Maiji Shan in Gansu Provence, N-W China one icy winter but it was too difficult...so we abandoned that part of our trip.
I had learnt about it in a 1955 travel book but it was then closed to foreigners.
Robin said "I will drive you."
About two weeks later when he was back in China, I emailed him.
"You said you would drive me to Maiji Shan...were you serious?"
He wrote back "Yes...I pay."
I wrote back "How about in two weeks?...and I pay."
He wrote back "I will meet you at Xian Airport...and we will work out who pays when you get here."
So I went to China by myself...and Robin drove me to Maiji Shan...and we stayed walking distance from the base...scaled the catwalks to the 194 grottoes of carvings from the 4th Century...carved into the side of the loess mound mountain...they could not remember an Aussie there before me.
And Robin also drove me to other remote grotto sites...just the two of us...and to Henan Provence...to Kaifeng...the ancient capital on the Yellow River that was abandoned as a capital in the 15th Century...as it flooded too often...and to Shaolin Si...the home of Kung Fu...and to Luoyang...to the marble carved Longman Grottoes...and to too many banquets where men travelled from other Provences "to drink with me!"
I have had many people over the years say "Visit me in Kiel, Kiev, whatever...but until then I had never got past "That would be nice."
I went to China to be driven to a carved mountain in the middle of nowhere because a man at my dinner table suggested he would... it changed my outlook on travelling... have the dream...then do it!
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