What age were your kids when you first felt you could leave them at home for several hours per day without an adult, while you travelled?
My daughter will be 12 next year. For the last 6 years, I have taken her travelling with me, when my boyfriend could not take time off work, or I went travelling for a short amount of time on my own. It would be a mega treat for me, if I could go travelling for a month by myself next year. I havent done that, for around 15 years. Last time, I had that much time all at once to travel was before my daughter was born, and when I was switching from one job to another and just told them I will start in a month, because I want some time off.
The problem is, my boyfriend wouldnt be able to get a whole month off work, so my daughter would be home alone for around 6 hours per day. My boyfriend would be there, when she goes to school in the mornings and when she goes to bed at night.
What do you think about the plan? I am thinking, 12 is quite old, and if she has access to my boyfriend by email while he is working, she should be OK. On the other hand, she does have some nice friends, but there are also some terrible kids in the neighbourhood. I am unsure if she would be OK alone, if those kids pester her, especially if they know I am away. My boyfriend is a bit uneasy about the idea, but I think he will be OK with it, after I make a reassuring plan. My daughter is excited about the idea of having the house to herself for some time everyday. She says, her friends are allowed do that and she wants to do it too.
Anyway, I have plenty of time to decide, as I would not be buying the plane ticket until the end of this year. Hopefully, I will have lots of opinions from other parents, or even teachers if there are any reading this, before I decide. 😊
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