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Traveling alone for the first time!

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Traveling alone for the first time and help needed.
12 years ago, September 13th 2011 No: 1 Msg: #143209  
Hi guys,

I am graduating from the Uni by the end of December and I have been having this wild idea about going on a backpacking trip by myself before I start working. I have got the permission from my parents to go on the trip and it could be the only chance for me in my life.

I am a Malaysian and as far as I know, traveling as a backpacker is not a-very-common practice among the society (well, at least not the people that I known of). My friends are pretty much seem to be tied up in university and they would only go for luxury trips, certainly not backpacking trips.

I do not mind to travel alone, even though I know there are risks for doing so and might have difficulty in communicating with the others as I do not speak good English. However I like to take challenges and make friends along the way. The only concern about traveling alone is security issue and safety. That is what hesitant me.

The ideal time for me to travel would be in March - June (I am not allowed to go away for more than 3 months) and I was wondering if you guys would recommend me where to go? I wish to go to places that are warm (no freezing weather please) and have a lot of festivals for me to participate in. The places that I want to visit are Egypt, Dubai (I know it is gonna cost A LOT), Spain, German, Italy .

I have been trying to organize it by myself however I can't seem to get a single thing right. I hope you could help and your help is very much appreciated!

Thank you for your time!



Regards,
Ping


PS, if there are grammar mistakes or you find it hard to fully understand what I am trying to say, pardon me, as English is not my mother tongue. Reply to this

12 years ago, September 14th 2011 No: 2 Msg: #143249  
Well I like the sound of Egypt, one of my favorite countries! The rest of your itinerary sounds expensive, but I suppose it would be exotic for you, where a trip around southeast asia probably wouldnt be. If you have the money go for it but you will be spending about 300 ringit per day.

Ever thought about east africa, kenya and tanzania? You can get a cheap round trip to nairobi from cairo...

I have met a few malaysians traveling but not too many - I think you should research the visa requirements for malaysian citizens for the countries you want to see, make sure its feasible.

Of course you have to be smart and take care of yourself, but dont worry you will meet tons of people and traveling in other countries is as safe as your country or mine (USA), you can get into trouble anywhere... Reply to this

12 years ago, September 20th 2011 No: 3 Msg: #143640  
Hi Dominick, I totally agreed with what you said about the security aspect. We just need to be smart enough to take care ourselves when away from home. Now I changed my mind again. Since I will be on the road for only 2 months, I guess it is best to visit two or three countries, rather than trying to cover all the areas within the region. I guess I am in love with Morocco after doing some research on that country.

Could anyone give me an insight about what Morocco is like and how much it is going to cost (if I was gonna stay there for like a month before going to Egypt), like daily expenses and tickets and stuff.


Cheers!
Ping

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12 years ago, September 24th 2011 No: 4 Msg: #143847  
Hi Ping,

I hope you are well. I unfortunately don't know about Egypt, Dubai or Morocco because I haven't traveled there yet but I am familiar with Spain and Italy and I have traveled alone before (however now I have my loving bf to accompany me 😊. I would say safety varies from country to country so be sure to see if you can find data on these issues either through your country's State Department or Ministry (I know the US State Department's website is a good resource for safety issues and I know I checked that before I went abroad). Really good guide books like Lonely Planet also have sections in their books regarding safety issues when necessary for certain neighborhoods, cities and countries (which I love to use them). Gender can also impact safety from country to country so also check gender related issues as well.

However, in addition to taking these precautions, just make rational, responsible choices and you should be ok. For example, if you drink alcohol keep your drink close, be careful with who you befriend and allow to get close to you, choose hostels the same way you choose hotels (if that's your thing), research your hotels in regards to geographic location and safety and refrain from talking about controversial political or religious issues. I would also suggest that you learn a few phrases and words for the countries you are going to visit, just basic ones, because that will come in handy if an emergency were to occur. I know this came in handy for me actually so I feel this is one of the best pieces of advice I could give you.

Another bit of advice that will help you I feel is just be respectful. During your travels you are going to encounters customs, items and laws that are not found in your country-this is normal. I'm sure you won't agree with everything, that's fine too. However make sure that if you don't want to follow that custom that you are not going to offend anyone. So I would suggest doing research to see if the country's you want to visit have stringent customs and laws that are expected for everyone to follow.

As for your itinerary-I like it and I'm excited for you! I've been to Spain and Italy and I loved, loved loved them! Italy was exactly as I expected it and beyond. I found the people to be very friendly, charming and helpful. They wanted to share with me their city and culture with me. I went to Florence, Bologna, Parma and Venice. All four cities were fantastic, however Florence and Venice were compelling, powerful destinations for me, I want to go back and I highly recommend them for your visit. However, for my trip back to Italy I'm also interested in going to Padua, Verona, Assisi and Rome. I also met a lot of backpackers who had gone to Qinque Terre in the south-it's this gorgous picturesque village off the west coast of Italy everyone's pictures just looked amazing from there! I recommend Florence because of its historical connection to the Italian Renaissance and to the Medieval and Rennaissance Kingdom of Florence thanks to the Medicis. The art museums are incredible as well the Uffizi and l'academia della arte. You have to go it's amazing! Venice-beyond words incredible. The cool thing about Venice is that it looks pretty much the same as it did back in the 16th century-there are also incredible museums which you must see and you have to see a glass blowing demonstration in Murano like I did-that's also a nice place to buy souvenirs to send back to the parents like I did 😊 That's another tip, I hope you will send your parents post cards and lovely souvenirs it helps them feel good and its another way to share your trip with them. I know for my parents especially since I was gone for 9 months, getting little parcels from me helped them emotionally cope with me being so far away.



Spain was also fantastic! Spanish people were also very friendly (however I speak fluent Spanish and I'm also a quarter Puerto Rican so that might also explain why I love Spain and Spaniards loved me) however everyone was nice and friendly, wanted to chat and share with me their city and culture as well. I visited Granada, Valencia and Barcelona-my favorites were Granada and Valencia. Why see Granada-the historic Albazyn quarter with his historic 12th Century Moorish architecture, the fabulous Alhambra palace and its charming architecture from the 17th, 18th and 19th centuries. Valencia, should be seen because of its great museums, it's incredible aquarium and its historic architecture. Barcelona also had incredible museums which I highly recommend the history of Barcelona Museum located in the Gothic Quarter and the Museum of Catalonian Art is one of my favorite museums ever! I actually got bored with Gaudi architecture for some reason and I found the Picasso Museum to be too small. There's also a Meso American Museum that was cool, but it too was small. I kept on comparing Barcelona to Paris because both cities look a little similar in some neighborhoods, but it seemed to not impress me as much as Granada and Valencia, which I felt were more unique. I knew people who lived in Salamanca, Madrid and Sevilla and they really loved it and were ready to go back again and again.

I've heard good things about Germany-I've only traveled through never to visit, however I've known people who have lived there and loved it.

I've heard mixed reviews about Egypt and Morocco-I've heard some people complain about how dirty it is, while others can't stop raving about the sites. Just go and enjoy yourself! You're young (and probably single) enjoy this opportunity while you have it! Good luck to you with your plans, I wish you the best! Reply to this

12 years ago, September 29th 2011 No: 5 Msg: #144173  

In response to: Msg #143847

Hi Citizen of the World,

Thank you for the very-comprehensive information. At this stage I am trying to focus on only two to three countries for my itinerary, considering that I am unable to travel for more than three months. I do not wish to visit as many countries as I could within this short period as that makes me feel more like a tourist than traveler. I would like to take my time to slow down my step, learn and understand different cultures.

My funds come from my parents (I have not gotten a job) so I might need to push Italy, Spain and German aside, considering they require higher budget to travel to than Morocco. I am seriously dying for Morocco. I do not care how dirty that place is (if that is really true!), I just cannot stop thinking how beautiful that place is, what kind of delicious foods I am gonna have and what kind of wonderful travelers and locals I am going to meet on my trip. All these things make me feel so excited.

Yes I am still young and single and I guess this is the perfect time to travel. My cousin traveled to Europe last year and she told me the trip had totally changed the way she viewed the world and her life. She gave me so much inspiration and I thought why wouldn't I be able to travel alone like a real man as long as I stay cautious over everything. It is time to, literally grow up.

I have a target to achieve, which is traveling to Morocco. Now I guess I need to start looking for cheap air tickets, accommodations, places to visit and time and date. Guess I also need to figure out visas, funds (as in either using traveler cheques, debit card, credit card or western union etc) and vaccine and medication. Since I will be going for about three months I guess I will like to visit another country, I have not figured out where to though.

My next target is traveling to Italy and German but I guess I will have to work very hard and save money for that after Morocco's trip. I just can't leech off my parents for everything, that is wrong.

If anyone had ever traveled to Alaska, or planning to, would you mind to share a little bit of the experience with me? 😊 I wish to visit this beautiful place before 30!


* If anyone is reading this, is there a difference between the way people perceive a westerner/Caucasian traveler and an Asian traveler? I am an Asian (I am not being racist) but this question has been in my mind for quite some time.



Cheers,
Ping Reply to this

12 years ago, September 29th 2011 No: 6 Msg: #144183  
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Travelling in SE Asia countries like Laos, Vietnam, Cambodia wouldn't cost you too much and If you do not mind getting along with people who cant speak English and mosquitoes. These countries are not like Malaysia and Singapore, which have lots of sight-seeings for tourists, so you have the chance to see how the people live there. Reply to this

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