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Published: August 7th 2006
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I feel a need to give an update on the politeness of Germans.
Many are still not polite. At all. Many grocery store cashiers are still rude. And many salespeople in stores size you up when you come into the store, and then (if they don't think you're worthy, as I suppose they think about me) look at you as if to say, "What are YOU doing here? Don't bother me."
BUT there is hope. In the past few months, people have helped me lift Kaan's stroller onto the tram, they've asked me if I want to go ahead of them in line because I have a baby and only one thing to buy, and they have offered Kaan cookies in bakeries because he smiled at them. In one store, Kaan was just being his cheerful self, hanging out in his Baby Bjorn and kicking his legs. He was probably singing, as he often does. And the shopkeeper gave him a lederhosen-wearing small stuffed animal bear, which we named Ludwig. I felt so guilty that I had written something about people in shops being rude. I have no way of knowing if all these nice people were Germans, as I still don't know enough German to know if they have foreign accents (unless, of course, their looking Vietnamese gives it away), but SOME of them must have been German!
Maybe it's because it's summer now and we're all getting more
Vitamin D, but I have definitely started noticing how nice Germans can be in recent months.
I must tell a funny story now, to illustrate how "niceness" and "politeness" are incredibly culture-centric and subjective. It's a friend's story, just so you know. When he was first learning English, in grade school here in Germany, there was an illustration in his English book of people waiting in line for a bus. The caption said something like, "People wait in a queue for the bus." The kids in class were apparently stunned. The statement made no sense to them. "But teacher, why are they waiting in a
line for the bus?" one asked.
Enough said 😊
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Mila
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Politeness in Europe
Well, after working over 18 months in Germany (Stuttgart) I can only approve your note...Germans ARE rude! ;- ) I can definitely say it, since I am french, and french people may be #1 in the "European rudeness contest" (just visit Paris and you'll see what I mean: taxi drivers, waitress in cafés and Restaurants,...the list would be too long). So don't get fooled by the summer attitude that you mentioned: in northern Europe people get just "different" from usual when the summer sun comes out in their sky! But who cares, as long as you get to meet the (small but qualitative) part of fantastic people that Germany has to offer, as in every country!;- ) One day you may even meet a local David Kameron (locally potentially called "Guenter schmithaueser" or something like that) in a "lunar park", that will come to you and exchange address with your family for years of true friendship! ;- )...have a nice day sister!