are you traveling? Everytime I see that picture of a girl (Nastassia I assume) walking down a isolated beach I think of your tragedy and hope you are back travelling again in her memory.
beautiful smile I had the wonderful opportunity to meet the family over Thanksgiving and saw all the beautiful pics of Nastassia that adorn the house. I am so sorry that I will never be able to meet her. I have met Decima and cousins Beth and Melissa, as well as Deci and Ben. What a a beautiful family this is. My sister Sandrine is in love with Hans and I do believe that "this is it" for her. I am so wonderfully blessed knowing that she is potentially going to become a part of this special family.
Nastassia Ben i feel your grief, my daughter died suddenlly also at 17 almost 18. God has schown me in many ways how we all have a set time i was given mystically the scripture Wisdom 3-4 and 6 read them to be found in Catholic Bible. She reached perfection in a short time so did my Cindy nothing can seperate love it goes on eternally so you are with her and she with you!!!! You are special that she was given to you in this time!!!!
Ben, I was in the secund bus behind yours. I can't image how difficult this still must be for you.. I wish you all the strength en luck. I still think of you and Natassia and I will remember...
Our thought are with you Ben, we never met you or Nastassia, but reading your last entry and looking at your pictures has brought tears to my eyes. I recognise some of the places on the photos as we were there ourselves only a year before yourselves, including Sucre. I can't even begin to imagine what you must be going through. These pictures are a wonderful tribute to someone who seemed to love life and lived it fully. Thanks for sharing your story with all of us.
feeling your pain Hi Ben, I have never had the pleasure of meeting either you or Nastassia but can totally relate to your experience. I admire you both and feel your pain. I am a mother of three teen -aged daughters,one of which just returned from 6 months in Colombia, I am now 48 years old but when I was 17 I spent a year in Trinidad Beni,Boilivia. I travelled all over Bolivia and fell in love with the country. You can not explain to people what a unique country Bolivia is.I'm so glad you both got to experience the most precious country in the world. Nastassia reminds me of myself when I was her age, and I have always tried to take whatever life throws at me and be grateful for all the positive. You will find happiness again, Ben. Thank you for sharing your story. I hope to one day go visit the orphanage with my 3 daughter's in Nastassia's honour. Take care young man! Risa
We have been reading your blog from time to time to give us tips, information and inspiration on our own trip so recognised Natassia instantly from this sad blog and felt compelled to write to you. This is such terrible news and hopefully you can draw some comfort from the fact that you seem to have experienced such wonderful and happy times together. Carla and Matt
Our deepest sympathies We met you and Nastassia briefly whilst saving the whales on the Galapagos Islands, and while we didn't get a chance to know either of you well, we were deeply saddened by the news of Nastassia. We wanted to let you know that she touched us with her warm smile and zest for life. God must have wanted a beautiful angel. Our deepest sympathies to you and her family.
A little sugar I am Nastassia's nephew Richards aunty from Kelowna. I found it sweet that Nastassia's middle name is Angelika and that she died near a place that means "sugar". Coincidence? I think not. Our hearts and prayers are with you all.
Hi Ben, I know that we only met briefly on Lake Titicaca but both Stephanie and I enjoyed your company, and thought that you were a beautiful couple. I don´t really know what to say, this is truely sad news and has shocked and saddened us deeply. You are in our thoughts and we shall say a prayer for you both. xx
Love Martin and Stephanie
Remebering Nastassia I remember Nastassia from school when we were young... Not so much an image, but I remember her as a kind and generous person, always willing to help:) I remember having the hiccups one day and I couldn't get rid of them! So she came and told me this weird ryme she used to get rid of hers when she had them! Sure and shit it worked lol and I still can't remember that ryme today lol! But everytime I get the hiccups I think of her. She was definatly one of those people I wish I had got to know better because she was fun to be around!
A life so young and genuine as Nastassia's reminds us of what of what we all take for granted everyday...a laugh a hug a helping hand or even a smile...How simple the most important things can be.
She will be forever missed, and always remembered by the lives of those she touched and mine.
Thank you. Ben, first i'd like to thank you and Stass for the blog. The blog, along with everything stass was and always will be is a constant reminder to live life, love and laugh. Secondly, It's been over a week since the service, and two and a half weeks since hearing the news...that time has allowed me to be able to reflect a lot on the times and memories i had with Stass growing up in CR, and of course at UVic. There was never a dull moment, never a sad day, and times where she could have been upset or disappointed just never existed! I laugh a lot when i think about all the funny things she would say and do, and even the way she spelled certain words...I know brandon and I always jokingly gave her a hard time about it, but she loved it and could dish it right back! One of the funniest moments i remember was we met up at the gym before a basketball game, and she says, "Guess what!?" So i said what..."I fell asleep in my exam in my professor's office and couldn't finish the test!" (laughing hysterically as she's telling me this of course)...I was rolling all over the floor laughing my head off, thinking is it really a good idea for her to write exams alone?!?!? She made everyone laugh...so they say laughter is good for you, well that just means well are all so blessed and much better people for having her around for almost 24 years. Stay Strong Ben. All our thoughts are with you and the family. robbie......rw.donaldson@gmail.com, or huskyheaven@hotmail.com
Wonderful Life I always felt like I really knew Nastassia through Decima’s eyes. This tribute is absolutely beautiful and is a reminder of how fragile and precious life really is. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your families.
Love,
Anushka
NAS Ben, we all know that Nas sits peacefully in heaven, watching over you. I wish I had the opportunity to get to know her better. I will pray for you and all those close to her. May her memory live on in you forever.
Dustin
Hi Ben,
it is with a heavy heart that I write to you after hearing of the tragic death of your Anim Cara (your soul mate) Nastassia. I was fortunate enough to have this blog site forwarded to me through Anne Turner at VCSS. Through your travel blog I had the opportunity to catch a glimpse of the wonderful days, weeks and months you and Nas spent together on your travels. What a beautiful tribute to her and wonderful memories for you. May her spirit live forever in your heart. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and her family. Blessings. Katie
Hi Ben, I know we've never gotten a chance to meet, but I feel like I have grown to know both you and Nastassia through all of Fred's stories and pictures over the years... the news I got last week was heart-breaking. Fred sent me the link to your blog many months ago and it has been amazing to follow you both through your journey. Please know that I am praying for you, Nastassia's family, and all who loved her. Through your strength, I know you have given so many others hope during this time. May her light continue to shine through you and all those she has touched.
Hey Ben, I just wanted to thank you for sending me the link. I'd found it a few days ago when I first heard the news, but it was really nice to receive it from you. I think everyone that Nas' life has encountered has been touched by a beatiful spirit. You know those people that stand out for whatever reasons? She was without a doubt one of them. I'll never forget her sense of humour, her constant smile and sense of adventure. She really did have a great philosophy on life, and that is one thing that I'll both never forget about her, and try to emulate. My prayers are with you, the Kunz family and Nas herself.
beautiful woman I am a long time friend of the Kunz family, and am deeply moved by this record of your travels, as well as your courage in posting the information on her passing. Natassia was simply a splendid human being in every way. My heart goes out to you Ben, and her parents and family. Keep her memory in your heart forever.
May God comfort you all, in this time of terrible loss, and as T.S. Elliot once wrote, may she have found 'The peace that passeth all understanding."
still an angel Ben, the family of Nastassia. Nas will never be forgotten. She lives on with all of us. I also only new Nas for a few short days during my travels but she will remain with me forever. It is not often in our lives we meet a person who shares so much warmth, love, happiness, and passion to all around them. Everyone she touched in her life will dearly miss her, the world has truly lost an angel. I am happy to have known Nastassia and her spirit will always live on with me.
Thank you for sharing your memories Hello Ben,
You don't know me but I knew Nastassia and her family. I was just at her service and wanted to check out your blog to see just what she had been doing for the last 7 months. It is a wonderful tribute to a wonderful person and her special guy. I didn't know this blog site existed until I found the address on the back of her booklet. I bet many more people will come on this site and enjoy seeing your memories now that they know the address. I was so impressed with your strength at the service Ben your love for Nastassia shone through all the saddness. May you find peace and solace in the memories of your beloved Nastassia.
a beautiful life Dear Ben,
The pictures of Nas are so powerful and beautiful. Thank you for doing this. Hopefully one thing we can take from this is we can try to appreciate and love life to the extent that Nas clearly did. I know her attitude and wonderful smile will live on through every one she touched. I'm so glad I met her. Britt
I was her swimming teacher when she was 10, and she was my mother's neighbour as she grew. her bright smile is something I have always remembered. she is special, beautiful. Keeping her memory alive, and live life in her honor...thank you for sharing this with us. strength and peace.
We are thinking of you today here in Sucre Ben, Today we lit a candle to remember Nastassia here in Sucre. We are thinking of you. We send our deepest condolences to you, her family and her friends. The blog photos are a beautiful tribute to Nastassia.
Living The Dream,
That was the name we selected when we set off on our first adventure out of Canada in November, 2006. Eight short months, and eight countries later, the love of my life, Nastassia Kunz was taken from me in a tragic bus accident just outside Sucre, Bolivia. She died doing one of the things she loved most, and I am thankful she had the chance to expand her horizons and open her eyes to this bizarre, beautiful, demented world we are a part of.
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two lovers in the sand watching a sunset....forever