Hello Abi 😊
Giving it all up and getting out there, but so many doubts and questions going solo..how do you push past it?
To put it simply, you just take the plunge. Others have, and very few regret it, from what I have seen posted on travel forums.
There have been times, when I wondered if I should have done less travelling and concentrated on more financial serurity, when going through a bad patch that others were not going through, but then when things started looking up again, I soon forgot my doubts, and started making the travel plans again.
Though, I still maintain that balance is important. 'Living the dream' as some call long term travelling is not everything. I would always have plans in other directions too. Travelling has to lose some of its appeal, when overdone like anything else.
Im just not happy being in the UK anymore...
Dont run away from things. You will just end up finding what you ran away from in other places, after the initial distraction and exoticness wears off. Find yourself in the UK, and then broaden that out to other places. Find out how to be happy and balanced in the UK, and take that balance everywhere with you.
Now if i were to go, id be going solo, to live somewhere I've never visited before and although its all i can think about, i know id buy my ticket quite happily, but stepping off that plane, not knowing much of the language etc etc...
There will always be doubts like this, and for sure you will be lonely and uncertain at times, but the experience will be more than these things.
I am currenly living as an expat in Germany. I do have my boyfriend and daughter with me, but I also get quite lonely, because the south of Germany is a very conservative place, and there are not many people here I could become friends with. It may still be Europe, but I am surrounded by a horrible housewifes brigade, that place top priority on things like clean houses, religion... So, basically there are always problems to be at least ignored. 😉
As for language, I speak Germany, but the dialect here is so difficult to understand, it is more like another language. Burocracy is another thing. It is always difficult to understand this, in another country, without somebody to guide you.
Overall, you have to do what you really want. I think, not doing what one wants is one of the biggest sources of unhappiness there are.
Mel
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