Turkish Wedding (part 3) – Nikah - (pron: NEE-kya) We had to jump through a lot of hoops in order to get to our nikah (See Turkish Wedding parts 1 and 2), which perhaps made it feel somewhat like a prize we had earned. In spite of all the planning, however, it felt, and still feels, more like a dream or a movie I watched than a ceremony I participated in. Here's what I knew about the ceremony before I participated in it: precious little. I had been told, fortunately, that I didn't actually have to recite any vows. That was Mr. Bureaucrat's job. All I had to say was "evet" (yes) to whatever it was he had said. Yes, I do speak and understand Turkish, but I don't have the slightest idea what I
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