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February 14th 2005
Published: February 14th 2005
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This has absolutely nothing to do with Valentines Day, but here is a picture of Josh my roommate on the left and Jimmy my suitemate on the right jumping together for joy.
For those of you who were convinced that I would never

return to my blog, worry no longer because I am back and I

have an exciting lesson to share with you about St.

Valentines Day and the way it is celebrated in Japan.

Much like the western world, February 14th in Japan is

still a time for Cupid to make love blossom between two

hearts, lovers to share enchanted and romantic evenings

together, and gifts to be exchanged, well sort of.


In Japan, on St. Valentines Day women are the only ones

doing the giving. It is thier responsibility to give

chocolates while the men do not give the women anything.

There are two types of chocolate giving that occurs in

Japan. The first type is “honmei” or homemade chocolate

giving and these chocolates are made by women and then

presented to their boyfriends, lovers, husbands, etc. on

St. Valentines Day. In addition, honmei chocolates are

also given to those gentlemen that the ladies have crushes

on. For example, if I were a lady that had my eye set on

a
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Okay. . . so I wanted to jump too.
fine looking male, come February 14th I would present

him with the most glorious honmei chocolates you would

ever see. Hopefully, after he knew that I was interested

in him he would ask me for my number, then out on a date,

and eventually we would get married and live happily ever

after. Please keep in mind that it is possible and quite

common for one man to receive chocolates from several

different ladies and this can be very taxing for the man,

because he then has to decide which candidate is really

his true love.


Before all you western ladies get all bent out of shape

about how crooked and backwards the Japanese Valentines

Day is let me let you in on Japanese holiday that is not

celebrated in the west. March 14th in Japan is known as

White Day and was created in the 1960’s by a marshmallow

company. This day is the exact opposite of Valentines Day

in that it is when the men are to show the women how much

they care for them. Good news for the
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So this picture is really in the wrong place, but I still wanted to share it with you. April and I know how to celebrate and once again we did it up right.
Japanese ladies,

the men don’t get off the hook by simply making some

chocolates and presenting them. Instead they are expected

to give pricy gifts, pay for expensive dinners, nights at

love hotels, and give flowers - the whole works!! This is

also the time when the man that received several home made

chocolates on St. Valentines Day must make his official

decision on who it is that will be his new love bunny.


For all of those western ladies reading today I completely

understand that until now you were not aware of these

Japanese customs and this is why I am giving you all a one

week extension on your chocolate deadline. Whether you

are sending honmei chocolates or giri chocolates (you know

where you stand) I expect them in my mailboxes by this

time next week. Lastly, a quick word of advice for those

sending honmei chocolates, remember I like red cherries

and cream cheese icing. For those that will be purchasing

me chocolates this year, Godiva will be fine.

Happy Saint Valentines Day to all of you
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South East Asia Pictures Part 1 have finally been uploaded. Again, the quality isn't the best on all of them - remember my camera was stolen. Parts 2 and 3 are coming soon.

Love,

Spencer

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15th February 2005

hey dawg.......i got your post card yesterday, exactly on valentines day. But yea im just here in 2nd period and i though id look at your blog. peace Little Broski - LoGan
15th February 2005

Lovey!!! Happy Valentine's Day!!! If I even knew in the slightest how to make delicious sexually attractive honmei then I would! Mwah! - Ama
28th February 2005

Hey Buddy!
Just thought I would drop you a line and let you know that I have been keeping an eye on your journals. Interesting stuff I must say! Glad you are living the life of fun!! - JGup
7th March 2005

Hey man its been a long time
My dad told me that you had this and Ive been reading a bunch of your posts. Im still at school at ETSU, but man I havent had a real vacation in like 4 years. Its really fun just to come on here and reading about all your adventures. Sometime soon I will be probably traveling, hopefully. Im really hoping to go to Europe and Japan sometime. - Kyle Ingram

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