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March 21st 2013
Published: March 21st 2013
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I travel alone, at least, most of the time I do. It isn’t that I especially want to travel on my own, but it is just a fact that the vast majority of the people on this planet do not have the time or the money to do so. If they have the money, they don’t have the time, if they have the time, they don’t have the money. In the west, it is a different situation, there it, in the end, comes down... Read Full Entry



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Ardimansyah on the bridge over the Barito River
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One of the many waterways in Banjarmasin
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Centre of Banjarmasin
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The only building I found in all of Kalimantan which I can positively say is from the Dutch Colonial time
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Mesjid Raya Sabilal Muhtadin
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Hallway at the Mesjid Raya Sabilal Muhtadin
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Pos Indo Plaza
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Example of Banjar tall-house architecture at the Provincial Legislature
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Random ojek driver who wanted his photo taken
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Bridge at Palanka Raya
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River view
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Car ferry on the Kahayan river
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Roofs and church
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Logging road, we got stuck in that patch of mud
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Burial casks and totems
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Carving of the deceased
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The coffins and the totems were located almost outside every house
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The longhouse, over a hundred years old!
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Carvings at entrance to the longhouse



21st March 2013

Lucky you are a man
Hi Ralfie, I agree that if you travel on your own it can be lonely but like you say the upside is you meet more people, as you are more approachable on your own and more open to it as well. I do have to say that as a woman as much as I would have liked to accept invitations by locals I never really did, I was always scared of what could happen being on my own. I do think that as a man you don't have to be as cautious but then again maybe I overdid it. When I read about all the nice locals you met and the interesting conversations you had with them, I feel that I missed out on a integral part of the whole travelling experience. Lots of love, Linn
21st March 2013

Yep, you are right.
I would be more cautious if I was a woman too, so no, I don't think you were too cautious. Even as a man I don't accept every invitation, and maybe I miss out on a load of other good experiences because of it. But this was a family, I tend to trust families more. Love back :)
21st March 2013

Couldn't have said it better myself
Superb articulation of the joys of solo travel, especially "...I think, on the whole, there is a much bigger chance of something like this [invitation to someone's home] occurring when you are by yourself. People are more prone to inviting a solo traveller, on top of that you tend to be more open when it is just you." It never gets lonely for me nowadays (but did when I was younger) as there is always plenty to keep me occupied with sorting through photographs or blogging. The biggest issue for me is having someone to look after my possessions when I need to race to the bathroom, or do some quick shopping or withdraw cash at an ATM instead of lugging all my gear with me. Hope you can replenish your funds and energy and hit the road again sooner rather than later.
21st March 2013

I know what you mean :)
I often have the same problem, so I end up on the toilet with my small backpack which holds all the important stuff. It can be quite difficult at times, it is not as light and small as I would like, so going to a tiny squat toilet with it is almost an art in itself ;)
21st March 2013

ALONE BUT...
I feel the melancholy in your words...but not really. The subject is melancholic but the experiences are not. Alone is a state of mind...alone in the physical is not necessarily in the spirit. You Ralf don't strike me as lonely...nah...you strike me as enthused at your lot...doing what others dream to do...and you do the doing. And if you perchance felt a bit lonely...you always have Travelblog...a massive family in the ether. Ralf alone...maybe...lonely...no way. Am I right?
21st March 2013

Right you are
At least, not here in any case, I have had a great time by myself. And as a whole I seldom feel really lonely. Strangely enough I often feel more lonely when I am in a backpacker hub surrounded by other backpackers.
21st March 2013

where are you now dude?
what's up dude?, i miss u buddy, be quite after you gone, my family always ask about you. i hope you well, and like you said " i keep my finger cross for you " ;)
21st March 2013

Back in Balikpapan
Ah Yasir, so nice of you to comment on my blog. I had such a good time with you and your family, I really missed them when I was on my own again. Give them my warmest regards and you may tell them I shall return (possibly sometime in September or so).
21st March 2013

I found your description of Yasir and his family's generosity heartwarming and, most of all, I was struck by your description of your motorcycle journey. Sometimes, it feels like the well-trodden, mapped or book-guided paths lead to certain expectations on arrival, but the irony is that the unexpected moment -- even stuck knee-deep in mud -- becomes the treasured memory. I think those rare moments are the most liberating and thrilling parts of travel even if they may come across as strange or mundane to others. Thanks so much for sharing this, it's one of my favorite blogs I've read this month.
22nd March 2013

Wow, that was such a nice comment.
Yeah, it is hardly ever the sights that are the sticking points in my life, it is the people, and the journeys, the weird things and the good things, being stuck in mud, or climbing up mountains in my flip-flops, the conversations and most of all the generosity and hospitality of the people I meet (both locals and, I might add, other travellers). Those are the treasured memories.
24th March 2013

Wonderful blog
I think the real blessing is you having the ability to choose between a life of world travel or the white picket fence. Both are treasures.
24th March 2013

Yep, you said it.
Thanks, and yeah, you are right both are sides are good, though for me, of course, the travel bit is the best ;)
28th June 2013

travelling almost without money
i already met couple people who are able to travel constantly i would say and can manage that for ...300-1000 Eur per year..Is it possible? i really would like to try, but not by myself. also, they stay in some place for few months, even work and that i found even much better way to get know and feel of the place than just travel through it. My point, which i really would like to brake in my mind and introduce to others of no need that much funds to travel, just right frame of mind, right :)?
2nd July 2013

Everything is possible
But the less money you have the more difficult it gets. Yes, I am sure it is possible to travel for a year with 300/1000 euros, though as you said, it would require settling down somewhere for a while and earning some money. Or going to some very cheap country and doing absolutely nothing, just eating and sleeping. I personally have different budgets for different countries, and it depends a little on what I want to do exactly. I try to minimise my costs and I think I am reasonably good at getting the most out of my trips with what I have. But I would not try and travel on 300 euros a year or even 1000 euros, because it gets very exhausting. In India my budget was about 200 euros a month, for which I could do everything, travel, eat, sleep in my own room with my own bathroom, see the sights, and even catch a flight every now and again. It just required me to travel more slow (the slower you travel the lower your budget). In Indonesia my budget is more like 450 euros a month, because it is just more expensive and also because I want to do such things as diving, which naturally push up the budget. The above budgets are realistic, if you know the ropes and still want to do the same as others, but on the cheap.
6th October 2013

Question about Clinical Trials and Travel
Hi Ralf, How do you do? I am big fan of your travel and blogs. Can't wait to read your next one. I read a comment by you saying you will start your next sojourn this September. So when can I expect to read about your next adventure? I am commenting to ask you about the clinical trails you undergo to fund your travels. I am looking at that as option as well. Can you tell me how risky are the tests that you choose to take. For example do you take under trial medicines that can affect your heart or other important parts? Or do you go for clinical trials less risky such as maybe a medicine for skin or something. Do you have to undergo processes such as incisions etc. for your trials ? Also, I want to know if you need a visa to be able to participate in clinical trials. I am from Asia. Thank you Big Fan
10th October 2013

Clinical trials
A trial is as risky as you want it to be. I can only speak about trials in developed countries, I wouldn't be surprised if the riskier trials are conducted in under developed countries where the regulations and laws are less stringent and enforcement more lax. For myself, I never take part in a first-on-human trial, which means that I won't be in the first group testing a drug. Drugs are typically in a clinical trial phase for 2 years, and are tested on thousands of volunteers. Why be the first to test a new drug if you can be number hundred or so? You don't get paid more, and even if I did, I still wouldn't do it. Second, know what you are doing. That doesn't mean doing extensive research on your drug, but just reading up on the information that is provided when you go to a screening. Clinics will tell you what they are testing, what for, what the side effects were on previous volunteers, on animals, at what dosage etc. etc. Read the information so you know what you are taking, and make an informed decision based on that information. Remember that you get paid per day you are in the clinic and not on what the drug is about, what the side effects might be, or what they might or might not need to do to you on the trial. Be patient, trials come and go, eventually you will find one that you are comfortable doing and pays the right amount. Trials generally don't involve incisions, I have never heard of a trial in which that was necessary. Trials do involve taking a lot of blood from the volunteers, so you can't have a problem with needles. Depending on the trial, you might also have a lot of ECG's, vitals etc. etc. taken. All new drugs can have adverse effect they don't know about, keep that in mind. This is why I try to reduce the risk by looking at the side effects on previous volunteers. If the side effects are nothing special (nausea, fatigue, dizziness), I will go for it. To participate in trials you only need a passport. You might need a visa to enter the country, that I don't know, but that has nothing to do with the trial. Participating in trials is not considered work, so you are not required to have a work permit. It is voluntary after all! Hope this helps.
25th June 2016

Tewah and longhouses
Hi - interesting post. You're right that there is no betang (longhouse) in the village of Tewah. But if you hadn't stopped there, but continued further up the Kahayan River you would have come across two of the better-known longhouses of Central Kalimantan - at Tumbank Korik and Tumbang Anoi. But the roads are not as good as the ones you travelled on! And you actually need to take a klotok canoe to get to Korik - but it's well worth the journey and the expense... There are a number of English-speaking people (both Indonesian and westerners) living in and around Palangkaraya (I'm one of them...) It's not nearly as isolated as you make out! But it IS extraordinary - particularly when you can get to experience the living Dayak culture in the up-river villages. Check my blog at www.jokar.com.au/blog for stories and photos (including about the longhouses at Anoi, Korik and Malahoi)
25th June 2016

Thanks for the comment
I don't think I made it out to be particularly difficult to get to. There is just little to no information on it, and the Lonely Planet makes it out be nearly impossible to get to. I found out for myself that it was in fact rather easy to get to Teweh, and just as easy to get to Malahoi, as I think I indicated in my blog. Thanks for the info on Anoi and Korik, it can be handy for future travellers in that direction.

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