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Hilary Caldis Joined: June 28th 2008
Logged in: December 28th 2011
Logged in: December 28th 2011
Travel Blog Posts
Just realize where you come from: this is the essence of wisdom. -The Tao Te Ching Every year, Rotary International Clubs around the world hold conferences to welcome back their young countrymen who have just experienced a year abroad living and studying in various foreign countries. Six years ago, during one such conference held in the US, there was a private meeting held with the students who had just returned from the Asian countries of India, Thailand and Indonesia. In this meeting the students found themselves face to face with a social worker and psychiatrist there to talk to them about culture shock. “We’d like to take you back for a minute to the beginning of your exchange,” the two began. “Please for a moment remember how difficult your first few months in these countries were. ... read more
South Africa: land of wildebeest and lions, a territory blanketed by mountains, dry grasslands and incredible coastlines, a place retaining 11 official languages and whose history has been forever marked by Aparteid, has opened its arms to one more American looking for some peace of mind and a new way to look at life. For those of you who may be confused in regard to why I made the jump from India to South Africa, here’s your briefing. My mother (born in America to parents from Massachusetts and Mississippi) spent her childhood through University in South Africa. There she grew up with her five other siblings, the last two of which were born in South Africa, in the small city of Pretoria where their father worked as a veterinarian and mother as a housewife and artist. ... read more
Believe it or not, this flighting America has successfully made her way out of Asia and into Africa. And as I sat in the Abu Dhabi airport on June the 1st waiting for 14 hours to make my way to Joburg, already I found it difficult to contemplate the place I had just come from. The land of camels and saris was already fading with the Dolce and Gabana everything, and US$4 Burger King French fries. Bored with guessing games—like what designer clothes are hiding under the burka—I began to organize my thoughts more clearly of the land of Bharat Mataji. Free from the scholastic world since the end of April, I have invested my time into seeing the world outside Rajasthan. Heading to Mumbai for a short stint with a friend from the MSID program, ... read more
This week marked the end of classes and the completion of reports and presentations. We celebrated our new found freedom by drinking sweet lassis (a sweet yogurt drink) and spending time out in the streets of the Pink City with local Jaipurians. Instead of writing, I've posted a video that was taken by friend and former MSIDer Renee at her NGO internship site this past fall. I get a kick out of it every time i watch it, so maybe you will too. The public education system is a concerning issue in Rajasthan (and in most parts of India) especially when it comes to schools in the rural areas. Though the issue is quite complex, one of the problems is that the teachers themselves are not from the villages, but instead are placed there by the ... read more
The Third World Experience: Knowing what it means to not have to wait in line. “We from the West,” who leave our lives of traffic lit corners and thirty page employee handbooks to explore what President Harry Truman first denoted as “the developing world,” often get confused by the strange disorder we find ourselves in when we step into this strange new world. As we enter into these places of chaos (as defined by our living standards at home) it becomes difficult to grasp what we as individuals can actually control. Rather than to worry ourselves too much over the problems, we begin to indulge ourselves in our new surroundings through the people, opportunities, and services that surround us. Soon enough (and probably to our own relief) we find the disorder of the place to ... read more
Holi (referred to as Phagwa in Bhojpuri), also called the Festival of Colours, is a popular Hindu spring festival observed in India, Suriname, Guyana, Trinidad, the UK,and Nepal. In West Bengal of India and Bangladesh, it is known as Dolyatra (Doljatra) or Boshonto Utsav ("spring festival"). The main day, Holi, also known as Dhulheti, Dhulandi or Dhulendi, is celebrated by people throwing coloured powder and coloured water at each other. Bonfires are lit the day before, also known as Holika Dahan (death of Holika) or Chhoti Holi (little Holi). The bonfires are lit in memory of the miraculous escape that young Prahlad had when Demoness Holika, sister of Hiranyakashipu, carried him into the fire. Holika was burnt but Prahlad, a staunch devotee of Lord Vishnu, escaped without any injuries due to his unshakable devotion. Holika Dahan ... read more
Though I didn’t exactly leave the region of Southern Rajasthan, I did take the advice of certain parties by getting out of the NGO for a day for some much needed site seeing. On this gumne (trip) Lindsay and I went with two of our Indian friends to Kumbalghar Fort…an ancient fort built by the Rajput king Maharan Kumbha in 1443 and completed in 1458 A.D. It claims to be the “most impregnable fort in the world” with the second largest wall in the world (after the Great Wall of China). The motorcycle ride out there took about an hour and a half, and was a highlight in itself. Along the way we stopped for delicious fried chili pacora which we dipped in a side of yummy buttermilk curry. The scenery was impecable, as usual, confirming ... read more
In the U.S., we normally consider it rude to ask someone how much they paid for something. In America, we often hesitate to question certain things especially when it has to do with money. Our social etiquette does differ significantly from the cultural norms I have experienced here in India, which has led me to wonder how the social etiquette I have grown up with has affected they way I relate to others. In general, when it comes to certain topics particularly of religion, race, and ethnicity, and even politics, I think we have a harder time voicing our genuine curiosities than we may think. Why do I think this? For whatever reason, maybe because we think we’re prodding more than we should, or are afraid that we might offend someone, or, (possibly the most likely ... read more
It’s been just over five months now, time enough to watch my own ideology shift considerably. No doubt my world view has been rifted and shaken. And in this rural setting, it's sometimes difficult to gage my current scope of the world. It's interesting to think about where my mind would be if I were back in the states. Maybe I would be tracking how prices have changed or worrying about the people I knew whose jobs had been lost. But then again maybe I would be sitting around pretending life was no different than before the market crash. So here are a couple of things I tend to think about quite a bit, of which would be likely outliers on my American radar. Caste and Class: It is a contentious and concerning issue of daily ... read more
Now that I've been here almost four and a half months and failed to keep a good account of the last two of them, I think I'd prefer to start documenting random stories and thoughts instead of trying to create a comprehensive overview of what goes on here. so here goes: An example of how the way in which universal habits are performed in different cultures is fundamental in shaping the memories we gain from them, as well as the perspective we continue to carry in their regard: Since I began living with my host family in September, I have observed that the parents face a constant struggle of getting their kids to bathe. When I lived with them for six weeks starting in September, I would wake up each morning to howling and wailing coming ... read more
























