"These girls are definitely not prostitutes". With no more than these rather flimsy words of assurance I followed, accompanied by a similarly bewildered Dutchman, into the nightclub. And very nice it was too, as good as anything I've experienced in London or elsewhere, genuinely good music (no Cher here, unlike much else of SE Asia), attentive waiters topping up your drinks, a private table and s crowd of well heeled Westerners and Vietnamese. At first, still cynical about the motivations of the Vietnamese party-girls it was rather awkward and they seemed rather put out by my caution, however, after inventing a girlfriend at home "yes, very serious, maybe I marry..." to avoid offence, it all went rather well. At the end they asked us to contribute towards the bill- a not unreasonable $10 for a night's
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