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Would love advice from people who have done this before!
15 years ago, August 22nd 2008 No: 1 Msg: #46437  
Hi Everyone,

My name is Isabella, I am 17 years old and I am leaving Italy tomorrow to do a full year exchange in Canada. I am excited but very nervous. I am not sure what to expect. My english is very good so I am not worried about that, but I have many other worries. I am nervous about everything from the food to my host family to school! I would like to speak with others who have done exchanges and know how you dealt with things like feeling homesick, what the best / hardest parts of your experience were, etc. And any useful advice you would give to someone traveling for their first time alone! Any information would be very appreciated!

Ciao,

Isabella Reply to this

15 years ago, August 23rd 2008 No: 2 Msg: #46450  
Hey Isabella!

I did a student exchange two years ago and it was the best experience of my life. My experience was a little different to yours- I was a bit older (20) so I was at university instead of high school and I stayed in student residence with other students instead of with a host family. But still, I had never travelled before and I was going from Australia to the UK- you can't get further away than that! I was terrified and excited at the same time and for the first few days I rang my mum every day crying and telling her that I was coming home! But once I settled in I never looked back and didn't want to come home because of all the AMAZING friends I'd made. Living in a new country for a while is just the best experience you can have, especially at your age- it gets you out there, gives you some life experience, gives you some independence and you learn so much about yourself. You'll come back a different person, I guarantee it- but I mean that in a good way!

As for feeling homesick, not much you can do about that! It's just part of going away for that amount of time. Obviously, calling home, chatting on facebook (or whatever), emailing will all help. And don't forget that you'll have school holidays- if your feeling THAT homesick, maybe you can go home for a couple of weeks then- or perhaps your family or friends can come out and visit you. Italy's not that far from Canada (relatively speaking).

I think you'll have a FANTASTIC time- it might take a week or two to settle in and become comfortable, so don't be put off if you land and want to turn around and go home again (like me!). I'm not sure what to say about the host family- I didn't stay with one myself. But I've got a couple of friends who went on student exchanges in high school and stayed with host families- they loved it.

Good luck! Reply to this

15 years ago, August 23rd 2008 No: 3 Msg: #46474  
Hello Isabella 😊

I deleted your duplicate thread. Please avoid posting duplicates.

I think you will find that there are so many immigrants and expats from Europe in Canada that you will have little problems with finding the food you enjoy. There are plenty of Italian restaurants in Canada and Italian food is popular there so you might find that your host family will produce quite a lot of it. If they enjoy cooking and/or experimenting they will also likely be pleased with any suggestions you may have. And if you can cook you may also get the opportunity to introduce them to more Italian receipes. Also you may discover all kinds of other things you like to eat.

It may be an idea to take a gift of some typical Italian food to the host family.

I am from Ireland and spent a year in Canada when I was 22. I think you will find the people modern and very openminded and friendly.

Homesickness is often something that those who travel and work and live in other countries face. It is however a small price to pay for the exciting experience of discovering another country, in my opinion. Thank goodness for the internet is what I think. It gives instant and inexpensive contact with family and friends whom you cant be with right now.

Mel Reply to this

15 years ago, August 24th 2008 No: 4 Msg: #46529  
Hi,

Thank you for the advice! I am sorry about the duplicate thread - I did not know it was bad and was not sure where would be best to post this. I arrived in Canada today. My host family is very nice and have a very nice house. And I did bring them some Italian food. We were supposed to do so. Anyhow so far they have gone out of their way to make me feel comfortable. I am quite tired from my long day though - I got here at about 1:30pm Canada time and now it is 7:30. We had pizza for dinner so that was familiar, and they even had it early for me to help with the time difference. Canada pizza is different than Italian pizza but still okay and I enjoyed it. Now I am just settling into my room and am going to go to bed early - it is already 1:30am in Italy, and I was barely able to sleep last night due to how anxious I felt. And I am not even homesick yet! So so far, so good. Thank you again for all of the information - much appreciated.

Ciao,

Isabella Reply to this

15 years ago, August 24th 2008 No: 5 Msg: #46547  

I did not know it was bad and was not sure where would be best to post this.



No problem Isabella. Your thread is now on the front page of TravelBlog so it will be seen by a lot of people. 😊 Reply to this

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