Ziba Sidryte, Daiva Siliunaite, Julija Sirgedaite

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We are working at an orphanage in Lithuania and writing about our experiences.



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July 1st 2011

It broke our hearts to wave goodbye as the van, filled with kids ready for camp, left Pamusis. It only got worse when we had to finally part with the remaining children and workers. These past two weeks have changed our lives. There are no words to explain how much we long to return to the children. The instantaneous bonds we formed were deeper than simply friendship. At times, we felt as though we were siblings or parents. Simple actions like drawing pictures or teaching a new game brought excitement to the kids' relatively monotonous lives. Their horizons were broadened just by hearing our stories of mountains, tropical beaches, big cities, and life in America. We were honored to find out that our presence even affected the other workers at the house. By seeing us ... read more



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June 30th 2011

Since it was our last full day here, we decided to make an American lunch for everyone. The menu consisted of grilled cheese, tomato soup, a side of mac 'n' cheese and watermelon. All was going well until we realized we had no milk. I got to explore a new part of the kaimas as I jogged with one of the kids to the closest store to purchase the missing ingredient. Some kids really liked our meal, and some not so much, but overall we are calling it a success! The only way to cool ourselves off in the heat was to jump into the river. Several times throughout the afternoon we all swam, splashed around and played games in the refreshing water. It's a good thing we were warm, because for some reason there ... read more



Wet & Wild

Published: June 29th 2011Europe » Lithuania » Siauliai
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June 29th 2011

With only two days left at Pamuse we had lots to do today. We also noticed that whenever we preoccupy the kids with activities, they don't act up or fight as often. Luckily, Daina Siliuniene sent tons of toys and goodies for them. The tie-dye packages were the biggest hit! Everyone happily painted pillow cases, while getting squirted by paint. The boys seemed to have even more fun with the plastic gloves and played with them for nearly an hour. After another very hot day in a house with no air-conditioning, Daiva, Julija and I couldn't stand it any longer. We filled up dozens of water balloons and started a massive water war! Everyone from the smallest toddlers to the oldest teenagers joined in on the fun. At night Roma came in our room to chat. ... read more



Utter Chaos Part 2

Published: June 28th 2011Europe » Lithuania » Siauliai
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June 28th 2011

This morning was filled with excitement when the kids found out we would be having a picnic at Skalų Kalnas, a hill and river nearby. The weather was hot, and after cramming 15 people in a 8 person car, everyone was more than happy to cool off in the river. After spending 4 hours in the sun, we knew it was time to go when we ran out of water and energy. Although we felt exhausted, it didn't take long before the kids bounced back . On a normal basis, these kids only have 2 caretakers that watch them throughout the day. Therefore, it is nearly impossible to keep track of what each of these 30 kids are doing at every moment. For example, one of the youngest girls was innocently digging in the dirt today, ... read more



Home, Sweet Home

Published: June 27th 2011Europe » Lithuania » Siauliai
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June 27th 2011

After a fun, yet exhausting weekend, we were so glad to be back at our new home-Pamuse. Unfortunately, in the middle of the night we awoke to the sirens of an ambulance in our driveway. The one-year old baby was having trouble breathing and had turned completely blue. This morning we were relieved to find out that he is fine and was probably only experiencing a complication of his case of the chicken pox. At some point this morning, the mother of the two children who were brought to us last week came to retrieve them. The courts gave back her custody rights which allowed her to take them home. Hopefully she will clean up her act, and they won't be taken away again. Roma and kids wanted to teach us a new craft-making angels ... read more



Into the Wild

Published: June 27th 2011Europe » Lithuania » Klaipeda
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June 27th 2011

At 5:30 Saturday morning we set out for our outdoor adventure! Our group of 11 very different people made for quite an interesting weekend. In total we kayaked 22 kilometers (about 14 miles) within 8 hours, taking occasional breaks to talk, eat & enjoy the sights. We traveled down Minijos river in Klaipeda - a beautiful area with cleaner and fresher air then the 3 of us city girls were use to. Surprisingly, kayaking was the easy part of the trip. Our camping experience was a little more challenging. As soon as we reached land it started raining, the outhouse consisted of a smelly hole in the ground and our summer sweatshirts weren't quite warm enough. But with good company, delicious sandwiches and lots and lots of blankets, we managed to have a great time! The ... read more



A Much Needed Day of Rest

Published: June 24th 2011Europe » Lithuania » Siauliai
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June 24th 2011

Exhausted from last night's festivities, we enjoyed taking a day of rest. Roma had told us earlier that we needed to make sure that we took some time for ourselves while staying at the orphanage, because the job is so exhausting and doesn't allow for any breaks. Since today was Jonines (St. John's Feast Day), we started off the day by going to mass at the local parish nearby where Daiva read the first reading. After a beautiful procession around the church, we went to Roma's house. We played board games, listened to music, and baked some goods for our upcoming trip. She is planning on taking us kayaking on Minija River, and showing us around the towns of Nida, Palanga, and Klaipeda. During a last-minute stop to the grocery store, we had a Hollywood moment. ... read more



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June 23rd 2011

"Jonines" is a celebration of the summer solstice, or the longest day of the year. Traditionally, it is celebrated all night long because there are only a few hours of darkness here. All day we waited anxiously to join in the celebration and learn all about the traditions of this major Lithuanian holiday. Today became even more eventful with the arrival of 2 new kids. The young girl and boy were brought to us by the child safety services after someone reported that they had been completely abandoned by the parents since Monday of this week. Upon arrival, the adorable, yet soot-covered siblings dressed in rag- like clothing were bathed, fed, given new clothing, and then finally introduced to all of us. Luckily, there have been no problems with the transition so far. One of ... read more



Reality Check

Published: June 22nd 2011Europe » Lithuania » Siauliai
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June 22nd 2011

The three of us have been here less than a week & have already been interviewed twice by local journalists. They were anxious to hear about the Lithuanian community in America, our reasons for volunteering & our impressions of Lithuania thus far. We enthusiastically answered every question & amazed the journalists by "speaking Lithuanian so beautifully !" After our chat about life in America, we experienced a true reality check. Roma wanted us to see the neighborhood that a majority of the orphans grew up in. We were appalled at the degree of poverty seen in these slums. A social worker in the area took us into homes that were full of stench & soot, naked babies holding moldy dolls & rotten food covered in flies. It was hard to muster up a smile when all ... read more



Utter Chaos

Published: June 21st 2011Europe » Lithuania » Siauliai
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June 21st 2011

Today after breakfast, the three of us stayed in the kitchen and learned how to make "kugelis", another famous potato dish, which was served for lunch. I don't think I have ever peeled so many potatoes in my life. In the time between lunch and dinner, everyone was making friendship bracelets-even the caretakers and cooks joined in. For dinner, we helped make a crumble cake which was made with "uogiene" or fresh jam. What we soon figured out was that in Lithuania, and most European countries, lunch is the main meal with the most food, and dinner is either a light dish or dessert. Today was probably not the best day to have dessert for dinner, because the kids went WILD. Kids were jumping from swings, racing chairs down the hallways, tickling us, locking eachother in ... read more






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