Taking some sun, eating good food and causing a stir in a small town It started with an invitation from Lulu: it's a labor holiday this weekend, and her family was geared up to get outdoors. Lulu said they were going to see the Yellow River, so of course I had to accept! There were nine of us: One grandma, one father, one mother, one aunt, four cousins, and one bewildered laowai. Kinship terms in Chinese seem to be more complicated in the wake of the "One family, one child" policy; the eldest cousin, for example, is not known as Lulu's "biaoge" (elder male cousin) but as her "gege" (elder brother). I have heard many Chinese people my age refer to their cousins in a similarly confusing manner; my theory is that either it is a
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