In memory of a great friend..

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“Kedves Hugim.. Mindenhova ahol járok belevésem a neved..Rég belémvésődött szóval csak magammal viszem és együtt látunk világot. Nagyon fogsz hiányozni amikor a leveleidet várom, vagy felakarlak hívni (mint régen csütörtökönként) meg amikor kiakarok hozzátok menekülni pár napra a nyugalom dombjára..Köszönöm, hogy támogattál és bíztattál,rád hallgatok..”


Lizzy and me had a great friend, a little girl also in Wheelchair who just managed this year to finish her Diploma and started to looking for jobs which suit her..and actually she found and wrote in an electric newspaper. Our little friend Hugi, real name Marianna Tónay, died 2010.October the 10.Th. We will miss her so much. She lived in Hungary and because her condition she never left the country. Her biggest dream was to get her diploma (Communication and English) and than go with her sister to Egypt. She had a lovely photo where she is telling about herself, that she is “Between two dreams” and I'm so happy that she had her life so full even she died age 24. I loved her so much and will miss her always. We remember you always Hugi! Hugi also had a nice blog (http://thm.blogter.hu ), she loved to write. Her blog was written in Hungarian. Lizzy and me spent lot's of summer with Hugi. When I first met her I was little bit scared to do anything with her, because her condition. Well I m not clear how they call this kind of state, but she was born with it. Her Muscles doesn't grow, her body was week. All what she could do alone was using her hands. She used to put lovely make up on, she wrote a lot, interested in Graphology. She loved to be with people and she had thousands of friends. She was very active with her social life, Read a lot and went to cinema, theater and everywhere as often as she just could. She always had great people around her and everyone who met her loved her so much..after the first impression. She was a “teacher of faith”. I feel myself lucky that I knew her. No question why we had to lost her.. She just gave us everything and she lived a full and happy life. Her mind was great and her temper was nice calm. Her parents has now a very hard time and they probably will suffer from her lost. I wish they have the strength and energy and that they support each other in these days..
On the 25.Th of October 2010 there will be a beautiful celebration for her memory. It will be in a Lutheran Church in Budapest, and all her friends and family and people who knows her will get together and share a moment. Lizzy also will go and I wish I could go but every day I do a little commemoration of Hugi on my own. I believe she is with me, with us.

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Photos

Hugi
After diploma...
Between two dreams..

Hugi
long times ago.. I sent you love from Ireland...