Bill and Carol's Senior Years Abroad: Month 3...Rahatlik


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August 21st 2010
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Scenes like this give us comfort
Welcome to "Month 3 of Bill and Carol's Senior Trip Abroad"! This month's theme is "rahatiik" (comfort). Despite staggering heat/humidity and a modest list of annoyances, we are finding great comfort here. A few nights ago, we found ourselves in one of those stock-taking conversations in which we tried to think back and line up earlier expectations with reality. We recalled that as we packed our bags in Seattle last May, our greatest hope was to be able to become part of an authentic community in Turkey: to become more connected to the people and culture around us than is possible on even a long vacation. And, to our astonishment, that's beginning to happen. A few weeks ago, our Turkish teacher (who is also a friend/neighbor/advocate) became a grandmother for the first time, and we love being swept along with her daily delight in Berk, the baby. Another friend has been worrying about her daughter who is suffering from a serious illness that is better known in the U.S. It's been gratifying to help her get information about U.S. clinical trials and medications through the internet. And our dear friend Gloria, who has lived in Turkey for 11 years, has decided
Serene...Serene...Serene...

The word "serin" means cool in Turkish, and that means comfort to us
(on the brink of her 75th birthday!) to become a Turkish citizen. The process is harrowing--not for the faint of heart, but Gloria is equal to the task. We enjoy cheering her on or cheering her up-- depending on the outcome of her adventures in bureaucracy on any given day. One last example: just before dark yesterday, I walked a half block through the sauna-like evening to the tiny market on the corner. It's on a one block cul-de-sac ending at the Sea. In front of the shop, the street was full of kids playing with soccer balls and scooters while their shirtless dads puzzled over a broken bike, and their moms cut up a watermelon on the stoop. A couple of people greeted me, and the smiling shop owner handed me his baby granddaughter to hold while he packed up my purchase. That's "rahatlik."

As expected, August has been hot--with humidity that reaches 80-90% most days. The high Taurus mountains that run along the coast near us often block any breeze. Grimmest of all, the view of the sparkling turquoise Sea and the mountains towering behind is completely blocked most days as if by an opaque gray curtain. We used the heat as an excuse to take two short trips--both in luxuriously comfortable, air conditioned buses. (That type of bus is actually called "rahat".)

First, we headed north to the lake district in a mountainous area near Isparta. We stayed in a cozy, family-owned pansyon on the small island of Yesilada on Lake Egirdir (the fourth largest lake in Turkey). Yesilada Island was not only beautiful, it was truly serene. (Antalya is vibrant and throbbing with sounds, so the quiet felt lovely.) In the evenings we ate bass from the lake as the water lapped just feet away. One day as we studied by the lake, we heard beautiful a capella singing of young voices from a nearby building. Later we saw dozens of adolescent girls in colorful Islamic dress frolicking in a garden. We learned that they were attending a residential summer school for Islamic studies.

Then, last week (when the internet weather forecast for Antalya warned of a heat index of 50 degrees C--or 122 F), we plotted another escape. This time our destination was the northern Aegean Coast. On this second trip, the "rahat" (comfy) bus ride was six hours through gorgeous countryside,
4 Generations of Innkeepers4 Generations of Innkeepers4 Generations of Innkeepers

This family runs the cozy pansyon where we stayed on Yeselada (Green Island)
in which the center of each village contained a gleaming mosque. In the huge Aegean coastal city of Izmir, we picked up our rental car and headed about three hours up the coast to the city of Ayvalik, where we stayed four nights. Unfortunately, Ayvalik was in the midst of a very rare heatwave too, but it was less humid--much more comfortable than in Antalya. It was fun to poke through the narrow cobblestone streets between rows of very old houses that had lots of crumbly charm.

The highlight in Ayvalik, though, was a full-day trip out among the islands on a large, handsome "yat" that was packed with lively Turks on holiday. Though there were many parents/grandparents with young children, it was largely an exuberant bikini-clad crowd who danced and swam for more than six hours--with very little liquor consumed too. An identical boat of merrymakers was making the same trip, and sometimes the boats would pull side by side for dance competitions! At the end, as we pulled back into the Ayvalik harbor, the boats again pulled side by side and a crew member from threw a rope from the top deck of one boat to the other. Suddenly, the rope was pulled taut unveiling a HUGE Turkish flag. As the flag flapped in the wind, EVERYONE on both boats sang the same song with great feeling. We assumed it was Turkish national anthem, but later we learned that the Aegean coast is a politically liberal (and more secular) part of the country, and the song is actually a protest song--expressing resistance against the current administration that is leading Turkey in a more conservative direction. It was moving!

Lest we give the impression that our lives here are never more taxing than spitting watermelon seeds off the balcony, we should admit that August has presented some white-knuckle moments. A few examples: 1)We were required to pay 170 TL (about $140) for the previous tenants' unpaid electricity bill. 2) BOTH our living room air conditioner and the refrigerator stopped working! (The Turkish word for "broken" is "bozuk"--and we've had to use it now for four appliances.) 3) The monthly wire transfer of our retirement income that needs to go from our credit union in Seattle and our Turkish bank in Antalya was stopped by the U.S. Federal Reserve because one institution omitted Bill's middle initial. Naturally, the resolution of such issues is complicated by language and cultural issues that are unfamiliar. For some reason, Bill seems to relish the kind of trouble shooting that gets us through such glitches.

Of course, Ramazan began August 11, bringing some fascinating changes. In this country in which it is assumed that almost everyone is Muslim, drummers come with loud chanting and drumming through residential neighborhoods to wake everyone up in time to eat before daybreak--when the fasting begins. I guess alarm clocks just don't do the trick! When we were in Ayvalik, our guesthouse was in a residential neighborhood, and the drummers came through between 3:30 and 4:00 each morning. They even walked between houses! The drumming was in a strange, uneven rhythm and the whole experience was quite eerie! Back in Antalya, though, we live in a neighborhood with residents from many countries as well as a good many Turks who don't strictly observe Ramazan. We were told that in areas like ours, neighbors often pay the drummers NOT to come--and that has apparently happened because our early mornings are blissfully drummerless.

But signs of Ramazan are everywhere--decorations, concerts, and special schedules at the supermarkets--which open well
Between Antalya and IzmirBetween Antalya and IzmirBetween Antalya and Izmir

Lombardi Poplars grow in this dry valley
before daylight now. We are surprised to find something of a party atmosphere--with smiling families out together after the iftar (fast-breaking dinner) at sundown. After dark, the park is full of cotton candy, live music, and vendors selling special toys and trinkets for children. As I write this, Bill is calling me out to see a unicyclist who had drawn an astonished audience. A huge stage with jumbo-trons has been set up at the edge of the Sea quite near us, and every night beginning at 9:30 p.m., a large crowd gathers for a special program there--a speech, a slide-show, or (more often) a concert. In short, large numbers are fasting--and it must be murder not to be able to drink liquids in these temperatures! But after dark, there's a lot of celebratory hustle and bustle--not the more somber, contemplative period we had expected.

For us, there's just one disappointment with Ramazan: You know the simit man we mentioned in earlier blogs --the guy who balances a tray of hot bread on his head as he comes down our street every morning? Well, the simit man has disappeared during Ramazan! Now Bill walks 4 or 5 blocks to get
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Streets are almost too narrow for cars
us hot simits every morning--but he NEVER puts them on his head.

Right now, Turkish politics are even hotter than the weather! (We learned something about that on that boat in the Aegean!) The newspapers and the chai gardens are buzzing with fiery controversy about a referendum that is coming September 12. It will determine if there will be key changes to the national Constitution, adopted in 1982 in a political crisis. The focus of most of the controversy are two articles that would give the ruling party more power over the Constitutional Court and the Supreme Board of Judges. Critics (who include many in the CHP party that is dedicated to keeping Turkey a secular state) say that a majority YES vote on the referendum will give the ruling AKP party greater freedom to advance a hidden Islamist agenda--that the AKP denies that it has. In Antalya two activists have been detained for circulating flyers urging a NO vote on the referendum. At the same time, the (liberal) Turkish newspaper reports that the ruling party is putting pressure on major businesses and NGOs to endorse the YES vote. Current polls project an EXTREMELY close vote, and--in the meantime--things are getting nastier by the day.

We close with a huge thanks to each of you for following us on this adventure. You can't imagine how much we enjoy your comments and e-mails! They really add to our "rahatlik"! As before, we are including a section of additional photos we'll call FACES AND PLACES just to give you a bit more flavor of this extraordinary country and its people.

With affection,

Carol and Bill Roach




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Dancing TurksDancing Turks
Dancing Turks

On the island boat
Carol in ContemplationCarol in Contemplation
Carol in Contemplation

It's mesmerizing to bob along on the sea
Flag between boatsFlag between boats
Flag between boats

We were moved by the song of resistance by everyone on board
Our Third Refrigerator ArrivesOur Third Refrigerator Arrives
Our Third Refrigerator Arrives

Third time is a charm
Blessed RamazanBlessed Ramazan
Blessed Ramazan

This sign arches over the entrance to our park where many celebrations are occuring
The Ramazan DrummerThe Ramazan Drummer
The Ramazan Drummer

This banner depicts the drummer who traditionally walks through the streets to awaken those who fast to eat before dawn. This year he comes about 3:30 am
The Ramazan UnicyclistThe Ramazan Unicyclist
The Ramazan Unicyclist

This unicyclist grabbed a child from the audience and hoisted him to his shoulders as a part of the evening fast- breaking celebration
Hayir means NOHayir means NO
Hayir means NO

This banner in Antalya expresses a position on the upcoming, hotly debated referendum.
Sarcophogus lid in Antalya MuseumSarcophogus lid in Antalya Museum
Sarcophogus lid in Antalya Museum

Discovered by a farmer near Antalya in 1995
Our first out-of-town guests!Our first out-of-town guests!
Our first out-of-town guests!

Alex and Kari on our breakfast balcony. We were delighted to have them with us
Olive Trees on the AegeanOlive Trees on the Aegean
Olive Trees on the Aegean

Ayvalik produces Turkey's most delicious olive oil
A singing TurkA singing Turk
A singing Turk

This fellow traveler on the Ayvalik boat sang as he floated


22nd August 2010

Your view of Turkey
Your view of Turkey even gives me a new dimension. I have seen these spots but your photos and comments give me a new dimension. I wish I had done this when I came. I have written down some stories but not as cleverly as you have done.
22nd August 2010

Wow!
Thanks so much for sharing your fabulous journey with me. I read every bit, and your pictures are just wonderful. Here at the church business is concerned with getting acquainted with the new minister; I find her quite impressive, and very clear about her goals for the year. When I hear about your weather, I give thanks for ours--which has been cool lately, sweaters in the morning! What a contrast. I start my own journey next Tuesday; three weeks in England with my family, a good deal of it walking the Thames Path, and seeing the sights along the way. Three of my fellow travelers have never been to England, and it will be fun to be tour guides. Keep the blogs coming; I really enjoy them, vicarious pleasure. You both write so well. Cheers, Molly Holmes
22nd August 2010

You have a gift for writing - it is a pleasure to read your tale of adventure and it sounds like there are many more good times and experiences than frustrating challenges. Though I can believe Bill relishes a good bureaucratic challenge from time to time. What ambassadors you both are for all of us here in the States. good luck during the elections - sounds like they will be a fiery as ours!
22nd August 2010

Month 3
Hi Carol and Bill, Such great pictutres of the places that you are visiting and where you are living. I know that Karen V G is off to see you on Tues. I will be so anxious to hear everything she has to tell and all the pictures she takes when she returns! Your Ramazan experience reminds me of something I read about Malyasia and evening dinners during Ramadan. Apparently, they were quite fantastic and non-Muslims were very happy to be invited! In Tanzania, I experienced the end of Ramadan and that was quite something. You'll see when it happens in your town! I'm off to Michigan in a few days. Karen and I have almost the same travel schedule. It it is certainly not as hot as it is where you are, but it has been a nice summer in Seattle. Love, Denise
22nd August 2010

beautiful pictures!
Thanks for posting! I admire your ability to find rahat in such heat and so far from home. What a fascinating adventure you are having!
22nd August 2010

Thanks for the news!
Dear Carol and Bill, It is a delight to hear from you and see the pictures. We are so glad you are traveling around and enjoying the people, places and coping with the inconveniences. Keep on writing and traveling. Best wishes, Elsie and John
23rd August 2010

Thanks so much for including me in your distribution list. Hope you're thinking about a book when you return (or at least a talk at Wide World Books). You do a great job of capturing the flavor of your life there -- plus I love the pictures. I'm vicariously enjoying your trip, and scheming about when I might travel to Turkey (hopefully while you're still there!). All I can say is that it won't be in the summer! p.s. I don't think we could get much sympathy from you if I told you that we've only had about 10 good days (entire days, not just a few hours) this summer, and about 6 of them were over 95. Seemed pretty hot to us!
23rd August 2010

Great stuff! Nice to read and nice to see the pictures of you guys. Chris
23rd August 2010

HI!!!!
I love reading your blog and seeing your pictures! Thanks so much for taking the time to share your adventures. I'm glad you're feeling rahatiik! and I hope the weather starts cooling down soon. It's just starting to feel like spring in Buenos Aires - temperatures of 23-25. It's great! Big hug and kiss!!! Catherine
23rd August 2010

Are you embarked on an orthopedic adventure
The refrigerator picture appears to suggest that Bill is wearing an orthopedic boot on one foot and ankle. Is there a problem?
23rd August 2010

Happy for you!
Hey Mom and Bill - I'm so glad to hear that you are really developing friendships with your neighbors and teacher in Turkey. Your stories of daily life continue to excite me, and Lisa and I are in the midst of figuring out a trip to visit in the near future. Love you! -Kate
23rd August 2010

Thanks you two!
Hi, Carol and Bill! Wonderful to receive your more recent report- the color and texture just jumps off the page! I wish I could hear the morning drumming- just once though. :-) I'm delightful that you're being fully enveloped by the people you're connecting with there- outstanding and not surprising! I hope this fall cools down for you a bit!
23rd August 2010

What a treat!
I love reading about your adventures. You personalize a place I have only dreamed of.... I await your monthly entries.
24th August 2010

Comfort
Thanks so much for your blog filled with pictures as images and with words. You are both quite gifted, you know. I can hardly wait to see Karen after she returns. I bet you guys will have (or had) a great time. My thoughts and prayers are with you. ADVENTURE ON!!!! In comfort, of course. Cindy
25th August 2010

keep 'em coming....
Great posts Carol and Bill! Vicarious adventures are always welcome and yours are among the best. Hope to arrange a stopover, but nothing planned as yet.
26th August 2010

Another world
I'm so enjoying your blog and pictures, and imaging what you are experiencing. The countryside is lovely and after 3 months, you seem very much in the culture. And I was also amused by the difficulties of getting things to work - something we often taken for granted over here. What are winters like there? Carol, did you have "teaching" dreams before the term began when you were teaching? I always had them and so did Tom - the dream is that you forget to teach a class, or prepare for a class, or ... and can't get it together. Well, since I'm not teaching this term, I had a "reverse teaching" dream a few nights ago. I dreamed that I mistakenly taught a class, then couldn't find the right instructor or get the students to the right place, ... It was hilarious. The subconscious is surely a hoot. Connie
26th August 2010

sunny Seattle
Hi Carol and Bill, You've probably heard that we had gorgeous "hot" weather, mostly in the 80's for a while. Today, back to fog and showers. Dad and Sylvia have been visiting. I'm glad you sent out your recent posting, as Dad hadn't seen any of your blog. What great photos and experiences. Who cares about a few broken appliances, when you can revel in such amazing cultural experiences. Turkey seems to have a long term struggle with the secular/religious balance . . . I suppose most places do.
26th August 2010

Keeping in touch
Your blog is such a wonderful way for us all to stay connected while you're far away. You'll appreciate this story from NPR today about how current Peace Corps volunteers are staying in touch with home in a way that wasn't possible in the past. You (Bill) will especially relate as you compare your PC time in the 60s with your current trip in your 60s! Ted L will have his more recent perspective. Here it is: Texting, Skype Alter The Peace Corps Experience. August 26, 2010 http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=129449455. Keep blogging!
27th August 2010

vince
It all looks very enriching. I didn't imagine a Mediterranean climate would be so hot and humid. Let's hope that subsides in a few days. Vince
1st September 2010

rahatlik
We could use some of that as we are putting our DC house on the market and in protest I guess everything is breaking down at once. Your adventures are wonderful and we look forward to each installment and forward them to Alison. It almost feels like I am there to read and see what you are doing in that wonderful country.
3rd September 2010

Hooray for adventure
I am enjoying seeing your photos and reading your story. How wonderful that you are both sharing your gifts with whomever it is you are bumping into.Many of the shots of open markets and baskets hanging by the doors remind me of times in the Philippines. what we didn't have there was easy swimming in the bay. that part sounds delicious. Of course, on the other side is coping with the heat, when you are not swimming! How do you find the food? Do you do a lot of cooking? or eating at cafes? Can you eat fresh fruits and vegetables, or do they need cooking to be safe? What is local? I saw photos of olive trees, so I am assuming you have olives. what else? My family news is that my son and his wife celebrated their marriage in grand style. Yes, another international couple. we totally enjoyed Ellen's family from Belgium. they were here about ten days. the celebration began in Seattle, moved to Los Angeles, and will end this weekend in Belgium when my son returns to the States. I am thrilled he is learning about this interesting culture and nature-centered part of the world. Keep on giving, and I will love receiving....your notes and reflections!!
24th February 2011
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Yeah, I love scenes like this too. I thought I was the only one. :)
24th February 2011

It's an honor!
Hello Mell: thanks for the comment! We greatly appreciate your ongoing support. Bill and Carol
25th February 2011
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such a great blog
Carol & Bill, We look forward to your blog posts, you are such a gifted writer Carol!! We cannot wait to visit your adopted country in May. Thanks for keeping us posted on your adventures. -Kara, Matt & the boys

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