Parents are parents...they always will be.
How do you tell your families you're leaving behind that you're off to some exotic place that isn't perfectly safe (like home)?
As have many, I went through this whole process leading up to (and during) my travels last year. There's no magic answer to this. In the end...they'll still worry. So you go and do your best to convince them that you'll be fine. Good on ya for still going where you want to go though.
What folks have said above is basically the way to go:
-Use common sense.
-Limit the inebriation when in places you're not familiar with and when you're not with people who truly care about you
-Communicate your plans and whereabouts regularly...unless those plans and whereabouts are dangerous. In the latter case, tell them after the fact. And...do your best to communicate the fact that the places you go are generally safe.
-Multiple forms of currency (US cash, ATM, credit card, travelers checks)...so you'll never be stuck w/o money.
-Be aware of your situation, location, news, or whatever is appropriate for the area...and behave accordingly.
I think it helps friends/family feel a little more secure about your travels if they know you have good plans like the above. Sadly, I think many people have misconceptions about much of the world and safety. When I got home from Africa, I surprised someone when I corrected him that everyone in Africa isn't actually walking around with a machine gun. This is one of the great things about travel and blogging about it - we can learn for ourselves and help others to see more of the world and what it is really like.
As for "some exotic place that isn't perfectly safe (like home)?" Home can be just as dangerous as anywhere else. I live in Chicago (nice Mid-Western America....safe!) and there are areas of Chicago that I don't go to. I'd feel less safe in some places 5 miles from home than I would in most of the places I went in the last year. That's not to say Chicago is dangerous...rather I just generally didn't feel unsafe while traveling. Though I'm not sure if that's because it truly was safe or because I think I'm indestructible...
If you find that magic answer for loved ones, I'm curious to hear it.
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I posted a similar question on the TT forum before I went and one of the people responded harshly, basically making fun of me thinking that if I was asking this question I must still be living at home and be incapable of doing anything without my parents say-so, etc. I really don't see any problem with being concerned about the feelings of family & trying to ease their worry.
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