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August 24th 2014
Published: January 17th 2015
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A popular regional coffee order, with milk, cinnamon and sugar.
There was a time when "bucket lists" were required elements of high-school health ed classes; I imagine the exercise of penning fifty life goals was intended to make us focus on the future and to underscore the rippling effect of actions taken in youth convince us not to make stupid choices. Unsurprisingly, mine more or less morphed into an ad nauseum list of places to visit, though somewhere along the way I switched gears, slightly, and decided how I'd finance these endeavors: "Get a job that pays me to travel." Brilliant.

Standing in line to board my flight to Guadalajara - ticket in hand booked through my company, lengthy instructions for how to file my expense report packed away - I can only think about how I am actually, finally, can't hardly believe it's true, traveling internationally for work (true - my trip to Sydney this past March was also paid travel, but whereas that trip was a one-off event - an break in the daily routine - this trip is part of my regular work-a-day job. Life uninterrupted, just relocated temporarily). We're talking "happy dance" level of excitement here, folks. Even better, Andras has taken some time off to
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Pardom me, "con limon"
join me and we finally leave the country together. I know. It only took us nine years (what can I say - there's a lot to see in the US!)

Though Mexico is, consistently, the top country visited by Americans, most are going to the beach-towns and resorts. Guadalajara has neither. Case it point, we were the only two foreign nationals on the plane, aside from the flight crew. It took us a whole five minutes after gathering our luggage to get through immigration and out to the main lobby, whereby we were greeted with an onslaught of ..... nothing. No time-share pitches, no "taxi" drivers, no touts. Just ordinary airport comings and goings.

We stayed in the Providencia neighborhood with faculty from the American School, a spare room in a standard house, a short up-hill walk to the school, and half a block away from a corner park and crêperie. That's right. Crepêrie. Providencia is a rather posh neighborhood in an already affluent city. It houses: the best Spanish tapas restaurant, the best Argentinian steakhouse, the best Italian pasta restaurant, the best .... you get the picture.

"What!? You went to Mexico and ate crêpes, pinxtos
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Bunches of fresh chamomile and sackfuls of cilantro? Yes, please!
and arrabiata?"

Yes, yes we did, because they were delicious. And you know what? That's where everyone else (read: the "locals") ate too. Throw out your notions of what 'authentic Mexico' should look like. Like most major cities in the world, Guadalajara is authentically cosmopolitan; what better way to determine whether or not you're in 'a city' than when foreign cuisines start coming to you. Interpreted for the Mexican palate, of course, which means plenty of chile and salsa accompaniments. Perhaps we should amend Tolstoy: "Urban centers are all alike."

So here we are smack in the Mexican suburbs, doing suburban things, only abroad. "Oh honey, we need to go buy a hair-dryer" (coordinate a taxi-cab to the nearest box-store and then fumble around trying to give directions with limited use of the language) "When are you getting home from work? I might go for a run" (through the grounds of the Pan-American Games). "How was your day? Did you pick up some juice and yogurt at the grocery store?" (be sure to get the new-to-us tropical flavors, and don't forget to the tip the bagger, because that's customary here). "I don't feel like going out. Let's just order in." (pizza with fresh corn and cochinita, slow-roasted pulled pork, delivered by motorbike. Thank you online-ordering because that was not happening over the phone). The closer we get to experiencing "Real Life" Guadalajara, filtered through our American habits, the more closely it began to resemble life at home. "Oof. I'm exhausted. Let's see what's on Netflix" (and get our fill of Mexican advertising to boot).

Hey-ho! Look at us go! We're truly immersing ourselves in Mexican life, now! (oh yes, even the "staying up late with the television" part. These walls may be good for security, but sound from the neighbors echo like none other). The more 'normal' our experiences were, the less genuine they seemed to people back home, so as per usual, half-way through the trip I find myself pondering this, spurred by demands for photos and tales of an exotic adventure, ultimately leading me wonder how best one would capture the MÉXICO of tourism propaganda our second week.

Step 1: Eat the Local Cuisine

Logical response: But, I'm already eating what the locals eat. In fact, half of these were recommendations from my Mexican students.

Bon-i-fide Travel-Foodie Answer: No, not the food
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Walking back from the Superama
consumed locally but obtainable elsewhere, dummy. The real local cuisine. Quick - do a couple of internet searches for "must eat Guadalajaran food." Find any Top-Ten slideshows? You did?! Fabulous. Now go track those dishes down, immediately. Everyone knows that, much like Shakira's hips, lists don't lie.

Truth be told, I really do like scouting out the specialities of the region. There's always a reason - historically, geographically - that a dish is associated with one place and not another, and it grounds me, to this place at this moment. What I don't like is feeling guilty every time I eat a meal that doesn't fall into that category. Or rather, I wish my brain didn't work like this:

I come back from teaching and Andras talks about this great lunch spot he found on one of this walks. "I really want to take you there. I got to know the lady that runs the place, and the sandwiches are awesome. It was a ton of meat in roll, and then covered with this delicious sauce." That should be enough to make me really want to go. But I press. "Covered in a sauce? Like ... how? A
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Growing everywhere
deli sandwich?" "Just come with me tomorrow, you'll see." Attitude = skeptical.

But the same scenario after reading several top-ten lists: "Wait, wait. Is this what you're talking about?" (show photo online). "Oh yeah, that looks like it." "That's torta ahogada! It's a regional specialty that translates into 'drowned sandwich.' Apparently it's one of foods you have to try when you're here!" Attitude = excited.

Same sandwich - now consecrated by the internet.

Step 2: Take Iconic Photographs

Logical response: Those don't capture the essence of what I experienced.

Social Media Guru Answer: *eye roll* Who cares about what you actually experienced? These photos are to serve as visual proof that you've been where you claim.

You would think that the increased accessibility of digital media would help combat the growing discrepancy between the reality and perceived reality, but I fear it's done the opposite. Case in point: many Americans think traveling to Mexico is dangerous (not just normal dangerous, but extremely dangerous) and that entire population lives in dirt, biding their time until they can illegally enter the U.S to perform all the hard-labor that no one here would otherwise do
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These lovely morning glories greeted us on daily neighborhood strolls. Living at the intersection of Canada and Italy, in Mexico.
(aka: "stealing" our jobs). So when I post a picture of an evergreen forest or a snapshot drinking tea is a stylish cafe, the response I get is "Are you sure you're in Mexico?" as opposed to, "I had no idea Mexico looked like that!" which leads me, consciously or otherwise, to conform to pre-set notions of what the place should offer as a way of saying, "No really guys, I'm actually here." Quick, where's a piñata? See - Mexico.

Even when documenting the sights, it's still important to be aware of differences in interpretation. When we first arrived in Guadalajara, the neighborhoods were intimidating. Twenty-foot high fences, razor wire, iron bars and gates and locks creating a series of impenetrable household compounds all the way down the block.

"Oh my goodness," we say, looking around at all these obvious clues of danger. "Is this safe?"

"Of course it is!" comes the local reply. "Can't you see all the razor wire, fences and iron bars? It's the safest neighborhood around!"

Gotcha. Same scene - two perspectives. When I look back of all the photos I took of the neighborhood, the barbed wire is no where to be found - I must have unconsciously cropped it out.

Step 3: Create an Itinerary (but Immediately Question It)

Logical response: Now you're talking! Seems following an itinerary is the only surefire way to capture "the generally accepted version of Mexico."

Experienced Traveller Answer: Look kid, if you want to reconstruct geography, you're inevitably going to have decide whose script to follow in the process. You want a trite inspirational travel quote about 'finding things where you least expect them?' Too bad. You get this one:

“It remains the professional Orientalist's job to piece together a portrait, a restored picture as it were, of the Orient or the Oriental; (...) circumventing the unruly (un-Occidental) non-history of the Orient with orderly chronicle, portraits, and plots.” —Edward Said, Orientalism.

Globalization exists, my friend, and if you're looking to redefine the 'real' by what has remained isolated and fixed in time you're going to need a heck of a lot more than a passport. It's all real. To travel today is not to find yourself dropped into a foreign land, but to discover the connections between that distant land and yours, one culture and another. Hard to do
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Bonus point if you read that to the "Carmen Sandiego" theme. Double bonus points if you can tell conclusively whether this supermarket in the US or Mexico - apart from maybe the 'Serrano Ham' flavor potato chips.
when you're too busy chasing the carefully crafted scenes designed to do exactly the opposite.

Despite the hackneyed nature of most travel related quotes, the underlying premise that traveling is a vehicle for discovery holds true, though it has very little to do with where you go and what you see, and everything to do what what you realize as you're going and seeing, or in our case, living and being.

This is what takes me so long to blog about each destination. If it were simply a matter of sharing my photos and describing where I've been, the delay would be one of hours, not months. But it's in the process of analyzing why I want to share what I do that the real interest lies. Why have I written four hundred words about three staid basilicas and the hands-down worst time we had visiting the Centro Histórico, while I've written zero words about the fantastic eight course meal from a Michelin star chef, and molecular gastronome, at Lula Bistro that ? (Correction: Now I've written fifteen) Why did I feel that sitting on the steps of some empty neighborhood street, eating tamals pulled
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Starting the morning with Earl Grey, thankyouverymuch.
straight from the steaming pot from the corner tamale vendor and drinking blisteringly hot, thick, champurrado as the church bells pealed across the street was the 'real Mexican moment' we'd been waiting for as opposed to, say, the afternoon spent grocery shopping at the Superama? Is it because one felt too familiar? Because of the tamales I ate in Mexico last time? Because of my desire to recreate that moment to share with Andras? Or because - all social influence aside - street tamales simply taste that good? (probably not. Good, yes, but it's my brain telling me it tastes exquisite, not my tongue).

I fear the answer lies in the impulse to widen the gap between home and away, to highlight the differences and, perhaps, try to capture the mystique of the world that used to exist before it became so small, before the internet brought us all together.

Working abroad, even for a short time, differed greatly from traveling abroad in ways I didn't anticipate, perhaps because I spent a substantial amount of time engaged in everyday tedium, as opposed to my usual style of running around like a mad women on a mission.
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Can't say much for their enchiladas, but for bottled water and snacks - it'll do.
People often ask me what Mexico was like. My honest answer? More like life in the US than many are willing to admit.


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Egg white omelette with Nopales
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Andras on our Street

Providencia, Mexico
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Neighborhood Stroll

Andras has taken to calling me "S.J. Abrams" because of my lens flares. I am unapologetic.
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Superama Cereal Aisle

Breakfast of champions! And children through all of North America, apparently, as this looks pretty darn close to the cereal aisle in every supermarket north of the Rio Grande
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En route

Somewhere over Mexico
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Breakfast in the Park

Yogurt and plums in the park


18th January 2015

Congratulations on finding a job that requires travel...
and thanks for correcting many misperceptions I have of the non-tourist part of Mexico.
18th January 2015

Misconceptions
I'm certain that aspects like poverty and corruption are to be found in Mexico, but like most countries it is far from homogenous. Both in-land places I've been - Puebla and now Guadalajara - I've found to be nothing less than nice middle-class towns, with folks leading ordinary middle-class lives. Very comfortable to visit, with no where near the hassles I've heard of tourists encountering around the resorts.
7th February 2015

Congratulations!!!!
Bravo! Fantastic blog. I cannot tell you how happy Dave and I are that the two of you are in Mexico together. Fantastic. Yeah for work. Glad you are finding all urban centers are not alike, that the suburbs are the suburbs for a reason. I love cities. Hanging on every word. Every thing is the same and yet not the same, subtle differences are found. i.e. torta ahogada. Mexico is one of our favorite countries because we love the people. They are so friendly. Yes we have been to many tourists towns but make an attempt to see non-tourist area of each location while we are there. We've never encountered any trouble...but we use common sense, don't go out alone, don't go on narrow alley's after dark- rules for any town in the U.S. Loved your discovery and comments of globalization and realization. Yes it is different living in a country and visiting a country. Your perspective and goal differ. Your experience would have been different if you'd lived in the urban area rather than the suburbs but not a bad thing. .... life is full of experiences and each one teaches us and opens our minds, views and hearts.
7th February 2015
And we're off!

Great photo
What fun

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