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What do you do when you miss traveling?

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A lot of the people on this forum are intense travelers. Some are doing many trips a years. Others are saving up to leave for a year and are doing again. Others live in a new country and adapt to a new culture. The question is what do you do when you feel nostalgia taking the best of you? What do you do when you just want to leave again?
11 years ago, April 24th 2012 No: 1 Msg: #155204  
I am not sure this is the right forum to post this topic.

I came back home from a 50 months trip around the world last September. I still feel like a big part of me is still somewhere along the way. I am stock in the past and feel like everywhere I have been is better that home.

It would be easy to move there and I would maybe be satisfied or I might feel the same some months after. I am lucky and I am leaving again in 5 days for 5 months. Going to some new places and more places I have already been too several times.

There is always a new place after all.

We are all different people. A lot of the us on this forum are intense travelers. Some are doing many trips a year. They are staying somewhere for short periods and want to see as much as they can. Others are saving for years to live for a long period and are live for long periods. Some are just moving to one place for a long period and are going to a different places every other months or years. There is also some people who chose to live in a new country and are adapting to a new culture.

My question is how do you deal with your travel nostalgia? Is traveling now one of your priority? Is it part of what you are?

How long does it take you to go back to your routine life after a long trip? Reply to this

11 years ago, April 24th 2012 No: 2 Msg: #155215  
I'm a serious travel addict, and I have no intention to find a cure. For me, if I've got to stay put for more than 5 weeks, I turn around like in a cage. Call it insecurity, call it nomadic lifestyle...call it lust for an epicurian of the extreme...call it the way you want...

My first priority are my children...my second...to hit the road. I left Europe 16 years ago...but during my five years at University, I was on the road all the time already.

Why hit the road, to meet new people...and to keep up with friends who don't travel as much as us.

Nostalgia...euh....never. I love to see the pics of the past...thinking that I've tried to fullfil my live nicely...and thinking what is coming next...

Trying to give the same lust to my kids...and it's going pretty well. We are getting ready for a big new long-haul adventure pretty soon...hopw we don't mess up too much...


The most important is the first step, everything after is way easier... Reply to this

11 years ago, April 29th 2012 No: 3 Msg: #155445  
I think that is way i always have a few trips on the agenda. I absolutely love attempting to find new places to go, best flights to get there, waiting for cheap deals, finding a location i want a hotel then finding the hotel. I have to try and pace myself in looking and booking these things 😊)
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11 years ago, May 2nd 2012 No: 4 Msg: #155612  
The only cure for the travel bug is to travel I would have to say! We are just going to continue to travel until we are happy to settle and enjoy a life back in beautiful Townsville!
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11 years ago, May 8th 2012 No: 5 Msg: #155964  
Travel if you can, that's what I say. Don't forget to enjoy and always try something new 😊 Reply to this

11 years ago, May 9th 2012 No: 6 Msg: #155974  
Hi Nick,

It was great meeting you last night and we enjoyed touching on this topic. The world is a wonderful place and the people make it special. Just as we are---- you are a child of the universe and long to see those far away lands and experience new people.

We have learned to embrace travel nostalgia. We welcome it and the feeling that it gives us. We can be watching a movie and all of a sudden they are in a scene of some far away land that we have been to.....and we smile... it is great having that familiar feeling about things you have seen, the people you have met and the places you have experienced. We embrace it and that is how we can stand it until we can take the next travel adventure.

After travel.....there really is no going back to the life you had....you've changed.

I agree with Peter that looking forward and planning for the next experiences gives us what we need.

As everyone above has mentioned--- we get the adrenalin from finding a great bargain, planning a trip to a new place, reading an article about someplace we have not been or would like to return to. When we can't travel we want to read about those who are or meet people who suffer with the same obsession.

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11 years ago, May 11th 2012 No: 7 Msg: #156059  
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In response to: Msg #155204 Though I have never traveled as extensively or for as long as you have, I know how this feels. I have been told it is a part of reverse culture shock. After being abroad for a while it is hard to readjust to not moving and not being surprised by something new every day. But naming it doesn't really help, and I don't think that you ever really get over it.
If I cannot travel abroad I try to travel within my own country. I take weekend trips to new cities, or try to explore my own hometown as if it were a foreign country. Like others have said, I also like to plan my next trip! That's why I'm looking at blogs and seeing what other experiences look interesting. Reply to this

11 years ago, February 19th 2013 No: 8 Msg: #166519  
I just try to plan to travel again. Reply to this

11 years ago, February 20th 2013 No: 9 Msg: #166594  
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I have to agree with the Brinkleys again - theres no going back.

I dont adjust to life between trips...i exist...i work ten week blocks then have a couple of weeks off and go somewhere. I am my happiest when im beside an ocean on an island with not many people on it. I think because I interact each day with at least 100 people (im a lecturer) that solitude is almost an ache at times. I have teenage sons..another reason I crave that time just sittin staring out at the ocean and the moon and slipping under the sea. During those ten weeks I plan the next trip and book it and pay it off over a few weeks so i dont get smashed with a huge bill when i decide to go. Only 6 weeks and I can go to Fiji or Vanuatu..prob Vanuatu. I dont do cities and travelling here is majory expensive and to drive to ningaloo and dive would cost easily 5K. Reply to this

11 years ago, February 22nd 2013 No: 10 Msg: #166645  
I try to plan for travel at least twice in a year. Reply to this

11 years ago, March 28th 2013 No: 11 Msg: #168025  
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I got back from a long, and long dreamt about, trip over a year ago, and I'm still going through withdrawal. I handle it by taking short trips locally, looking at my pictures (tens of thousands of them!) when I feel particularly nostalgic, and reading blogs. Reply to this

11 years ago, March 28th 2013 No: 12 Msg: #168034  

11 years ago, March 29th 2013 No: 13 Msg: #168134  
I sit at my desk, browse through old photos, through Travelblog and consider the ways I can penny-pinch my way ever closer towards travel.

And in the meanwhile, I try to seek out new places in my own immediate vicinity that travelers from *elsewhere* would find interesting, and play tourist in my own town.

Edited for the second part for your question: Honestly - no. Traveling is not my top priority. I wish it could be, but I'm/we're at the stage in life where have to think beyond the immediate moment. To make sure steps are taken to establish a career and to establish a security of something to come back to, or fall back on, once the travels are over (or in-between them). We want to raise a family, eventually, and fully intend to travel with kids, but we can't do it unemployed or in debt. But in that light, building career prospects that enable travel is a top priority.
[Edited: 2013 Mar 29 19:47 - Stephanie and Andras:35953 ]
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11 years ago, March 29th 2013 No: 14 Msg: #168150  
The only way I can reign in the post-travel blues is to start planning another trip, even if I'm not exactly sure when it will be. Always reading, studying, planning. Always. Reply to this

11 years ago, March 30th 2013 No: 15 Msg: #168183  
I usually take about 6 week trips and after this time I want to go back home and visit with my family again. The same pretty much holds true for when I am home. After about 4 to 6 weeks I want to head out again. The fact is that I am downright comfortable at home and at ease with those around me so I do have to overcome a bit of inertia to get traveling again. I enjoy travel but I enjoy my time at home just as much. I have a family that loves me and likes having me around and when you travel people may be polite and friendly with you but they don’t love you.
I took early retirement in December 2010 and have been traveling off and on since. I use the time between trips to “digest” all that has transpired from the previous trip and see what I have learned from it I can apply to the next trips. Usually while I am traveling too much comes at me too fast for much time to just stop and think things over.
I invested the decade before I took early retirement in divesting myself with everything that would not fit in a 30 ft travel trailer, my bank account, or my laptop. For example I scanned all my favorite pictures from my photo albums and so I have them in my laptop wherever I go and can look at them on “slideshow” when I wish. I then gave all my albums to my sister. Nowadays with digital cameras of course I can keep all the pictures of all my trips with me wherever I go by using a My Passport portable hard drive. Of course I back everything up on another external hard drive when I am home.
I also make a Word file every day when I travel on the location I visit so I can have it available for future reference on future trips and use it for my blog and Facebook. I don’t trust to memory.
So basically between trips I digest the events of the last trip and see how the knowledge gained can be applied to future trips, visit with family while I am home, and do homework on future trips I am planning, as well as attend to the unavoidable details of life.
Since College Station, Texas is my current home base usually the approach of the Hot weather is my motivator to get moving. It is just too darn Hot and Humid in central Texas to stay here in summer. And there are too many cool and comfortable places I can go so why put up with the Hot Summers here. So usually from May to November I find somewhere else to be.

[Edited: 2013 Mar 30 17:11 - Sojourner1208:178197 ]
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11 years ago, March 30th 2013 No: 16 Msg: #168186  

In response to: Msg #168183

William,

We have followed your travels around Texas, NYC and more recently to Ireland, parts of Europe and Mexico.

We've begun the downsizing process and have begun to digitalize all of our old photos. It is a great process and feels good.

We know you've recently gotten back to Texas but are eager to hear what direction you will head on your next adventure. You are right that it does get hot in Texas in the summer. That is great motivation for travel.

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10 years ago, April 23rd 2013 No: 17 Msg: #169689  
I am already getting withdrawal symptoms from not travelling! What to do? Well, luckily I still have quite a few travel blogs to write, more than enough travel blogs from other bloggers to read and fortunately the planning of another trip in the not too distant future to plan. This is the time when I devour other travel photos and stories and start annoying Paul with the typical question: where are we going next...and when? Or 'How about this place?' Reply to this

10 years ago, April 26th 2013 No: 18 Msg: #169795  
Like most previous commenters, I plan my next trip...but remain flexible as to which order I take them in. So I usually have several in the mix. I don't think I could ever do one long RTW with the knowledge that this is the trip of a lifetime, with a decade or more until the next trip. I prefer annual trips so that the next one isn't that far off. And of course I remain addicted to TB, the inspiration for future trips. Reply to this

10 years ago, April 29th 2013 No: 19 Msg: #169901  
Reading these really makes me wonder and think how will I feel when I am due to return home in 3 months' time. Time spent travelling at a home away from home, I guess, will very possibly makes me miss it so so much Reply to this

9 years ago, June 13th 2014 No: 20 Msg: #182501  
try plan for travel once in a year. Reply to this

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