2 weeks before leaving for europe, my boyfriend left me withotu really giving me a reason and i dont know if i should have hope when he comes back considering he still loves me.
I like some of the other posters do honestly believe that he's not being 100% honest with his reasoning with you. I don't know if it's as black and white as "he wants to sleep around" because I hope for your sake that you haven't wasted your feelings on someone who would do that for as long as you have.
HOWEVER, there's more to this than he's saying; and I think that you should just stop caring honestly. Stop trying to figure out his feelings and just LET IT GO.... Now I know, MUCH easier said than done but you're not doing yourself any favours over analysing every little thing that he says and does.
You DO need to do your own thing for a little while; date, set some sort of personal goal that you wanna do for yourself and work on achieving it, see what's out there, and not for him, not so that you can be 'even' with him when he comes back - whether it be more independent, more grown up, or whatever. Simply because you've just had your heart broken and you need to heal 😊
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