I've read about half this thread and given up on responding to any posts, so I'll just weigh in with my two cents
Firstly, Sorolo - thank you for the guide on tipping in the US! I live in Australia and this is my first visit (I have family here) since I turned 18, and I'm going out with my stepsisters in a few weeks and have been a bit nervous about the tipping system. Thanks for the explanation!
Secondly, I actually think the service in your average, meal-for-a-tenner restaurant here is far, far superior to any service I've gotten in the rest of the western world. The servers are attentive, they pop round to fill up your drink, they let you know if your food's a little delayed - but don't get in your face. Keep in mind I'm talking your meal-for-a-tenner restaurants, not top-of-the-range, but this is my experience in Georgia, anyway.
Thirdly, what someone said about only being tipped $10 -- yes, that might be far less than what an American would tip, but the people tipping probably thought they were being generous. I've worked in service in Australia and London at a few places - two of which we never even saw the tips - but if somebody gave me a tenner, I'd be thrilled. This is on top of ten dollars an hour though, so maybe it's all relative.
Fourthly, while I don't have a problem with tipping being what you do in the states, I *do* have a problem with Americans going overseas and tipping so much and so often. (OK, I've been on the receiving end and *I* didn't tell them that we don't tip that often, but...) It then makes the workers in whatever country feel they have a right to expect, which puts the onus on the rest of the white world to keep up with some doofus in a hawaiian shirt (yeah, we all know the kind I'm talking about. The 'Only $40 for a hotel room in India? OMG THAT'S SO CHEAP, HONEY!' type) .
Having said that, toilet attendants seem to have popped up in a few places in London, and the first place I saw one I tipped her about 6 pounds in all. It was in a club, and she was keeping up with the drunks, passing out tissues, taking our rubbish, handing out perfumes, deoderants, every toiletry you could imagine, AND letting Miss Drunk at the front of the queue know when a stall was available :D But this is the kind of worker I think we're ALL happy to tip.
When I'm overseas, I tend to tip based on the service. If the service was decent, I'll usually say 'keep the change' (unless I'm in Japan, where you get told not to even leave a single yen behind), if it was good, I'll add a pound/dollar coin or two. If it was fantastic, unexpected, and I have the cash spare -- then it just depends on how much I've got spare.
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