Bill and Carol's Senior Years Abroad--Month 15 and 16: Carpe Diem (Seize the Day)

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October 18th 2011
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Welcome to the tenth edition of our journal documenting the first fifteen months of challenges and adventures while living in --and in this case, traveling out of--Antalya, Turkey. We've just returned to our dusty flat in Turkey after almost ten weeks in Hungary, Austria, and Slovenia. The trip ended in the U.S. for some sweet reunions with friends and family and for a wonderful family wedding in the mountains above the Pacific. Instead of a chronological record of the trip, we'd like to write a bit about some broad observations we had about the countries and cultures we visited.

We begin with this blog's theme "Carpe Diem" (or Seize the Day), chosen to capture the mood of our late summer travels in eastern and central Europe. As Americans, we are used to having an agenda for each day and are accustomed to planning our lives months--even years--in advance. Okay, we may get more done faster that way, but, we become slaves to our calendars and watches--always thinking ahead to the next thing--and the ones beyond that. Somehow we always schedule too much, so we're in a rush. Needless to say, with the clock ticking in our ears, we miss much
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In Vienna, even the juice bottles urged the theme
of what the present moment offers. In retirement, we have the luxury of kicking that habit, and life in Turkey has given us a good start toward doing that. But our background as harried Americans still holds us in its grip, so we were happy for more lessons about Deep Leisure.

We were surprised to find the wisdom of carpe diem intact even in eastern and central Europe. In the cities, sidewalks were brimming with folks enjoying a summer day with a friend, a book and a glass of wine or coffee. For the most part, these folks weren't just taking a quick break. Their body language conveyed no tension or rush, and they were still there hours later. The camera picked up dozens of other examples: lovers nuzzling at a bus stop, women chatting on street corners, folks in long conversations at the spectacular public baths.

Then there were the bikes. In Slovenia, Austria, and Hungary, bikes provide indispensable transportation, and the cities have provided bike lanes that are completely separated from other vehicles. Like other progressive cities around the world, Vienna and Ljubljana provide free bikes available at kiosks all over the city--just grab one, pedal
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In Budapest, we caught them kanoodling in the rain.
to your destination, and drop the bike off for the next rider. (Bill really relished that experience!)

Oh, and the cuisine. After fourteen months without pork (well, almost), we eagerly compensated for that deprivation--for a week or so. Then we began to notice that in restaurants, almost every dish is a pork dish, and our enthusiasm waned. Fortunately, we were doing our own cooking most of the time, so we did our best to minimize the red meat and load up, Turkish style, on veggies. A high point in both personal and culinary realms was the nine days we spent in Vienna, where our friends Ed Bergman and Luisa Gil provided us with a wonderful empty flat and also cooked a number of spectacular (porkfree) meals for us in their home--meals that we will not soon forget!

We also loved the unaccustomed pleasure of church bells. In Turkey we enjoy hearing the call to prayer from nearby mosques five times a day. We hadn't expected to hear church bells roughly as often in Europe, but we did. Of course, the citizens of the three countries we visited are largely practicing Catholics, and frequent church bells are, I
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We rediscovered hiking here
guess, a benefit of a more religiously homogeneous populace. In villages, the melody and pattern of church bells even announce deaths and funerals--nothing automated about that.

Then, there was a huge variety of live music everywhere! Of course, we expected it in Vienna and Salzberg, but the music in Slovenia blew us away too. There, every village is said to have a chorus. The tiniest ones have, at least, a quartet. We heard some excellent music in street performances, and almost every evening in Ljubljana we found a free concert, sometimes vocal, sometime instrumental--but consistently fine quality.

Of course, Bill never goes anywhere without paying particular attention to land use, especially in the cities. We admired the enormous proportion of land devoted to green space within Vienna, Budapest, and Ljubljana. And since there is so little space devoted to sprawl or American-style suburbs, these cities are dense enough for public transportation to be truly effective. And effective it is --fast, integrated, and widely used. Makes our transit-loving hearts ache with envy!

Maybe the best feature of all in the countries we visited was the most predictable: jaw-dropping natural beauty! Of course, we've all seen mountains, but these are MOUNTAINS, and their grandeur delivers goosebumps! Below the peaks, the hills are the most vivid, phosphorescent green either of us had ever seen. We tried, over and over, to capture the backlit luminous quality with the camera, but we just couldn't do it justice. And Bill, of course, fell under the spell of the gorgeous rivers. From the village where we stayed in Slovenia, he even did three days on the Sava River with huge silver flashes flapping heavily at the end of his line. And, yes, it's catch and release in Slovenia.

There were minor difficulties, of course. Just when we were beginning to get by in Antalya with our basic but emerging Turkish, we were in one country after another where we couldn't speak the language. (Actually Bill gets by with some residual German from earlier travels, but Hungarian? Slovenian? Croatian?) We had rented a car in Slovenia and for a sidetrip to Croatia, and found the traffic warning signs a constant puzzle.

Arriving in the U.S. after an absence of fifteen months proved that travel gives us fresh eyes. The faces of friends and family never looked so good! We got to spend five
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Many Slovenian hills are topped by churches
comfy days with Kara and Matt in Seattle (nothing like the presence of grandsons Taulby (6) and Jude (8) to remind us to seize the day!) The wedding in California reinforced how much we treasure family and tradition, especially sincere, light-hearted tradition. The wedding also gave us a chance to savor some time with Kate and Ted Leslie (Carol's son and daughter), who came from the east coast. In Berkeley, we even squeezed in some hilarity with Judith McKoy, Carol's longstanding buddy from her long-ago life in New York

Some of our responses to stepping back into our old world in the U. S. were predictable. For example, it was wonderful to be surrounded again with the racial, religious and ethnic diversity that we haven't found elsewhere. And, naturally, everything in the U.S. seemed HUGE: the cars, the stores, the roads, the restaurant servings, and--of course--the people.

But other things were a bit startling. We'd forgotten how many folks in the U.S. are begging on curbs and sleeping in doorways. It had been fifteen months since we'd seen people publicly drunk, high, or in need of treatment for mental illness. Even in the parts of Europe where people have a beer with breakfast, we hadn't seen any public intoxication--and certainly never in Turkey. We were both disheartened to see with fresh eyes the large amount of poverty and social dysfunction that continues unabated in the country we'll soon return to. We are following with deep interest the global protests that have spread from the Occupy Wall Street Movement. We'd love to hear your thoughts about it--either a blog comments or in private e-mail messages.

Back in Turkey, we've been delighted with the bright sunshine, blue/purple skies, and shirtsleeve weather. Bill has resumed his daily morning swims in the Mediterranean--now with a gaggle of friends. We loved a quick but truly fun visit from our daughter-in-law's (Lisa's) parents, Jan and Bill Marshall, from New Jersey.

But Turkey continues to teach us to give us lessons in patience. We returned to Antalya to learn that all the bus routes had been suddenly changed without notice. The city has distributed a new bus map--but it is wrong. The 1 million people who live here are figuring out the revised bus system hit and miss, then calling friends and family to share what they learn. (Our Turkish teacher called to
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This one gave me a tussle
tell us how to get to the huge produce market we love.) And in another puzzling episode, the replacement prescription eyeglasses Carol ordered in the U.S. have arrived via FedEx (thanks Janet!)--but are being held in Istanbul for a variety of "customs fees" that amount to 1/3 to 1/2 the value of the glasses! In the end, we decided to send the glasses back!

On the brighter side, we leave in two days for a short trip, to perhaps the most fascinating part of Turkey--the Kurdish areas in the east and southeast very close to the borders with Iran, Iraq, and Syria. The weather's great and our volunteering hasn't resumed yet--so Carpe Diem! We'll be gone five days, spending three nights in village homestays with Kurdish and Arab families and seeing some of the world's oldest sites in the region where the Tigris and Euphrates Rivers flow. This trip will be the focus of the next blog--please stay tuned.

As always, we are so very grateful to our readers for following along with us. It means so much to us to know you're out there! If you enjoy photos, keep scrolling down after the end of the text.
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Here we are in Vienna using the free (1st hour)bike system
This blog has the most photos of any so far. (We had to wrestle each other to the ground to reduce the number even this much!)

With affection,

Bill and Carol Roach

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Eger, Central Hungary

Famous for it's "Bull's Blood wine
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Budapest Public Baths

These "pool palaces" are heated by hot springs under the city
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Eger, Central Hungary

Famous for it's "Bull's Blood wine
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Hungarian Gulash

Perfect with that wine
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Music in Maria Alm

We get a glass of schnapps from the cask under her arm for contributing
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A bed with heart

Parting message from our friendly Turkish housekeeper at Maria Alm Hotel

18th October 2011

Watch your step!
I do hope you'll pay close attention to where you're walking in the next few days. I would hate to have your delightful blog interrupted by an "unpleasant incident" with border police.
19th October 2011

How wonderful to be included in your journeys
What she said... and if you want more info on OWS, Judson is in the thick of it. If you can go the the website you'll see pictures & Michael Ellick's sermon of October 16, reflecting on one aspect of the meaning of it all, is excellent. If you need a NYC stop off, we're here.
20th October 2011

Photos show it is indeed beautiful country. Makes me want to visit it some day. Maybe in my next life :)
20th October 2011

Travel in Europe
You two certainly know how to travel!You do a great job of taking pictures, sharing them and your adventures, too!
20th October 2011

Carol & Bill - it is dismaying to read about your view of the poverty and dysfunction in the US - seen with your fresh eyes. I guess we grow accustomed to it. The Occupy movements are trying to tell our leaders we need more from them - hopefully they will hear us eventually.
22nd October 2011

How wonderful!
Hi Carol & Bill, I so love getting these blogs. You are creative writers and it's so much fun to see not only where you have been, but also your commentary. I love it all! How much longer will you be in Turkey? I was hoping to visit sometime, but now I am knee deep in the work of the Search Committee. It's so very rewarding to do this work, and with some amazing people. I am getting to know some folks on a deeper level, and it's quite fulfilling. Thanks again for your blog. You are an inspiration to me! Lauren
22nd November 2011

Shared experience
I loved your comments and observations about that part of Europe. I too have just returned from the land of the bikes. My son and his daughter moved to a city near amsterdam. I decided visit them, and just to warm up my visit, took a River tour from Vienna to Amsterdam. both parts were eye openers to history, beauty, and right living. My son who wears a European suit to work every day still gets there by bike. the three of us spent a spectacular three hours in the Netherlands national park biking all over that diverse environment, stopping only for our picnic lunch. the story of healing, after many wars, touched me immensely. there is so much for Americans to learn from our European friends. You both look happy and gratified. When you return, perhaps we can share a beer together!!
23rd November 2011

A good beer
I look forward to that beer!

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