Sometimes when you don’t call your parents, or talk to long distances friends, it’s a good thing. It means that your life is on track – you are busy, you are fulfilled. Reaching out to others can be for comfort and support when things are not going your way. I’ve heard parents say, when your kid goes off to college and doesn’t want to call you, be happy – that means they have found their place, and don’t need you. Others, when things get bad and stressful, wrap themselves up in a closed blanket, and only let their immediate surroundings – a pet, a lover, a best friend – in. To everyone else they disappear, only emerging when it’s sunny again. I have done both these things: but now I am always the former, reaching out
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