Merritt Wilson

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I hope that this blog of my experiences living and traveling abroad is able to facilitate multicultural understanding for those who don't have the time or opportunity to travel. If I may make one small difference in the world, I hope it can be one that helps us to understand that the multitude of small things we have in common bind the world so much more tightly than the seemingly bigger things that currently divide us. If all the world's citizens can realize this, perhaps someday we will finally have peace on Earth.



Travel Blog Posts


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April 27th 2013

After the September 11, 2001 terrorist attacks in New York City and Washington, DC, many American attitudes toward the Middle East and Islam were quite negative and, in some cases, openly hostile. I found my world turned upside down and felt as though my childhood was suddenly over. The time had come to make my own decisions about other countries and peoples, relying no more on the perspectives of family and friends. It was a defining turning point of my life, but once I became caught up in university applications and music school auditions, the events of that terrible day faded into the background. Never did I imagine that I, myself, would one day journey to those distant lands. Sometime over the Christmas holiday, I had a conversation with my Mom about her long-held desire to ... read more



The Fork in the Road

Published: April 8th 2013Asia » China » Beijing » Chaoyang district » Sanlitun
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April 8th 2013

Last week, I traveled back to a life previously lived. For seven days, I reveled in reunions with old friends, feasted on Beijing delicacies, breathed in (relatively) smog-free air, and bargained up a storm at Beijing's famous Silk Street. For seven days, I imagined what life might have been like had I stayed. Just over a year ago, I had reached a fork in the road: four years in Beijing was long enough to have become truly immersed in the language and culture; what did I imagine for my life moving forward? Obviously, the choice I made at that time brought me back to the country of my birth, the incomparable United States of America. But was it the right choice? I had seven days to figure that out. I arrived in Beijing on a Monday ... read more



The Parting Glass

Published: October 24th 2012North America » United States » Minnesota » Minneapolis
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October 23rd 2012

I always feel a little emotional around October 21. The date has bilateral significance for me. In 1925 it marked the birth of my Grandma Ruth, and in 2006 it marked the last time I ever saw her. Her trademark sense of humor shone through in her response when I revealed that I was moving to China on her birthday--'well, that's a fine how-do-you-do!.' As I hugged her tightly goodbye, tears spilled from my eyes. To this day, I don't know whether they were tears of apprehension about my move overseas or if I had some premonition that I would never see her again. I do know that as she hugged me back, memories from my childhood came flooding through my mind. The weekend sleepovers at her house, smell of fresh coffee luring me awake; ... read more



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October 12th 2012

Let's just get it out there: Eastern Europe is not a good place to be a vegetarian. The ghastly array of meats and other derivations of animal by-products is mind-boggling. One theory is that on some subconscious level, the people are so thrilled to be rid of communism that every meal is a celebration. Another guess is that they need to eat a lot of protein and fat to sustain themselves through the long and dark winters. Whatever the reason, as I traveled to Poland and the Czech Republic with my parents and brother this September, I knew it would be a challenge--in more ways than one. Thanks to the Duckling Project, I had some mad comp time of which to take advantage. I took the Megabus double-decker from Minneapolis to Madison, Wisconsin the afternoon of ... read more



The Duckling Project

Published: September 18th 2012North America » United States » Minnesota » Minneapolis
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September 10th 2012

I recently had dinner with 15 high school students from China at a well-known Minneapolis eatery called the Old Spaghetti Factory. As we were leaving, a table of six stopped me to inquire if they were all mine. They were joking, but in a funny way, the sentiment rang true. The students arrived on the rather ominous date of Friday, July 13th. They were going to be participating in the pilot year of a four-week leadership training program that I had spent April through July creating and scheduling. If the program were deemed a success, it had the potential to become an annual thing that would include prospective students from countries all over the world. So, no pressure. While designing the program curriculum, I took many factors into account: the importance of finding dedicated, competent core ... read more



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April 26th 2012

Dear Grandma Ruth, Here we are again. Another year, another letter. It's hard to believe that it has been five years since you left the earth for your new Life. It feels at once momentous--five years--and also like it shouldn't mean anything at all. Why should we observe the anniversary of the date you left our lives? You are still here with us, in our hearts. I made a huge decision this past December. I decided to move back to the United States from China, permanently. At first it was a really difficult decision to make; I'm not going to lie, Grandma. I had been building a life there. I had friends there. I had a job. But sometimes things change. People change. And we accept it and move on. All those years I spent living ... read more



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April 15th 2012

I recently attended a concert that was held in Central Lutheran Church of Minneapolis. The concert itself was marvelous, incorporating the powerful voices of a brass quintet, the emotional response of the 80-member choir, and the triumphant swells of the pipe organ. As soon as I walked in, though, I was overcome by the simple significance of the fact that the concert was being held in a church. Half of the pieces in the program included the words 'God', 'Lord', or 'King'. As the concert progressed, I surveyed the audience of hundreds. Some were listening with their eyes closed, some with half-smiles, some nodding in rhythm to the piece. Out of habit, I scanned the back of the room for the omnipresent government officials sitting in to make sure that nothing was threatening the State. There ... read more



Blast from the Past

Published: April 4th 2012North America
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April 3rd 2012

There comes a point on every cross-continental flight when the passengers have to choose between acceptance of circumstances beyond their control and outright revolution in the air. On a recent flight to China, I was amazed, and touched, to bear witness to a happy medium that set the tone for the rest of my journey. Two months ago, I started my new job in Minneapolis, Minnesota. I’d finally made the decision to move back to the United States from China and was incredibly blessed to be offered the position only about three weeks after my initial move back. After a few weeks of moving chaos and some reverse culture shock, I’d found my rhythm and was starting to settle in. Then my boss dropped the bomb: he wanted to send me back to China for a ... read more



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February 26th 2012

Her face crumpled and her eyes filled with tears. Her lower lip quivered and she buried her head in her arms on the kitchen table as her shoulders shook with sobs. My Chinese host sister had just found out that I was moving back to the United States and she was devastated. I felt terrible. I think it is always easier on the person leaving than on those left behind. It had been a difficult week, informing my boss and coworkers that I would no longer be working with them, telling my friends that I was returning to my homeland, and now I had to break my host sister's heart. I was at peace with my decision, but it had not been an easy one to make. For a period of time, I had been uncertain ... read more



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January 26th 2012

As I cycled through the quiet streets of my parents' community near Phoenix, Arizona something felt off. I ran through a quick checklist in my mind. Brakes work? Check. Mirror adjusted properly? Check. Using the appropriate gear? Check. Then it hit me. As I gazed across the wide boulevard, the White Tank mountains visible on the horizon, there was nary a person to be seen. It was just me, pedaling solo, alone with my thoughts. Where were all the people? Where was the crush of humanity that ebbed and flowed around me as I wound my way through the streets of Beijing? It was eerie, strange, disconcerting....and wonderful. This would be the first of many lessons learned while adjusting back to life in the USA. It's a curious thing, really, getting reacquainted with the culture of ... read more






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