Connolly US Road Trip

Connolly US Road Trip

About the Connolly US Road Trip: Welcome. To view our blog entries, scroll to the bottom of this screen. To learn more about us, read this first:

We are a mom (Kathy) and a dad (Paul), and a reluctant 18-year-old son (JJ), and a 15-year-old son in pursuit of Ultimate Scrabble (Scott) who traveled from Connecticut to the West Coast of the US and Alaska and the Yukon in the summer of 2008. For each of us a certain type of quest took place. Paul wanted his hands on the steering wheel all the way across country and back again. For Kathy, this trip was all about getting the kids out of (what she saw as) their rut back home—friends, attitudes, habits that needed to be reexamined. Okay, she wanted them to change! JJ, for his part, spent the time wishing he were back home with his friends and, in spite of himself, absorbing, learning and—gasp—having a lot of conversations with his parents. Scott wanted to see the country and wanted to beat the Computer Scrabble on his cell phone. We were all successful in our quests--this blog tells our story.

We tell what we saw--landscape, wildlife, national parks, a cruise ship, people, roads, cities, and towns--but more importantly, we discuss the dynamics of traveling with two males whose ages can be described with the word “teen” for 11,000 miles in six weeks. We use a bit of "inside humor" in the blog, so here it is:

Mascots, Fantasies, and Other Escapes from Reality: There’s nothing like a good fantasy when you don’t know what to do with reality—this is a family who learned that lesson long ago. For instance, there’s the Kingdom of Floonia--our imaginary kingdom—that exists on a real island that emerges in the Connecticut River near our home at low tide. Floonia has been a family "inside joke" for ten years. Somewhere between Cleveland and Chicago, our vehicle, a rented Dodge Grand Caravan, was dubbed the Floonian Roadster. (It was a great car for this trip and performed flawlessly.)

We picked up a couple of toy mascots who provided much comic relief. The toy prairie dog was named Clark Griswold after we ran a “Name the Prairie Dog Contest.” Clark Griswold, you may recall, is the bumbling father in National Lampoon's "Vacation." The toy husky dog joined us in Alaska and is called Ainoolf. He got his name in the contest, too--Ainoolf is "Floonia" spelled backwards. You'll also find that the main writer, Kathy, often holds discussions with Toto, Dorothy's dog in "The Wizard of Oz." Kathy also fantasizes, from time to time, about a retreat into total hermitage—just a little one-room house in the mountains somewhere, no phones, no e-mail, no car, and no family dynamics to negotiate!

We were visited more than once by pesky little creatures Kathy calls “travel cooties”—invisible evil spirits of the road that have been known to hitch onto long distance travel parties since the dawn of time. If your travel has ever been visited by boredom, bad attitudes, snappish tempers, or “are we there yet” syndrome, you have had a breakout of travel cooties.

The photography was done by all of us at different times. Thanks for visiting. Hope you enjoy!




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Connolly US Road Trip
August 31st 2008

from Kathy August 11, 2008— The most thought-provoking question I heard on the trip was asked by Michael Modzelewski, naturalist on the Inner Passage cruise: If you didn’t know how old you were, how old would you be? I thought of this question as we ended four days of silliness and high fun surrounding my mother’s 80th birthday, where no one was acting 80—not even close to it. But at 7 a.m. on Monday, August 11, it was time to go. Our farewell entourage included my brother Tom, who had just finished building a new house. He called out to the departing Roadster: "We have a brand new septic system that needs breaking in! Come visit!" Grandma, ever the last to get a joke, looked blank for a minute, then put her hands to her mouth ... read more



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Connolly US Road Trip
August 30th 2008

The boys are back in school now. JJ is a senior and Scott, a sophomore. You asked about a Road Trip? What Road Trip? Oh, yeah …. THAT Road Trip. People ask: What were the Best Places? The Best Things to Do? Before it all fades into history, we’ve blogged them in this post: First, we give our Thirty-Nine Travel Lessons Learned, then the kids’ Five Travel Lessons Learned. Then: Best Places Visited, Twenty-two Common Everyday Sights, Best Travel Guides, Best Hotel, Questions to Ask Hotels, Funny Lines, Signs and Bumper Stickers, Voice and Data Connectedness, Best Diversions, Best Meals, Animals Seen, Parks Visited, Favorite New Wine. The final trip notes are in the second post, detailing the trip across Pennsylvania, back to home, and the weeks since. Thanks to all for joining us. Thanks to ... read more



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Connolly US Road Trip
August 18th 2008

Travel lesson of the day: Driving across country changes your perception of distances. from Kathy: I wake to see the sun shine at that August angle that signals the fall season. No matter how old I get, this first signal of summer’s end is always a sober one. Leaving Grinnell at 10 a.m., the urge to make phone calls takes over. First, I call the school guidance counselor, then the barber who cuts Scott’s hair, and the pediatrician. I am setting up appointments for next week—but wait a minute, that means we’ll be home in a week. Question: How can I be in Grinnell, Iowa and expect to be home in anything less than a month or two? Answer: It’s all so much closer than I thought. Question: You mean Iowa isn’t that far from Connecticut? ... read more



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Connolly US Road Trip
August 17th 2008

What's hot: Farmland in full abundance. What's not: Being the only female in a car with three men for 30 days. Travel lesson of the day: Who needs ‘em? from Kathy: Gray day over South Dakota. Odometer reading is 6,429. We try to wake early but the boys are somnolent. Finally, JJ moves from bed to a long, long shower. Scott complains that his brother takes such long showers in these hotel rooms that he won’t have any time for his long, long shower. Teenagers and long showers go together like toddlers and cookies—the big difference is that once a boy is in the shower, I can’t take it away from him. All I can do is keep knocking on the door. For instance: Kathy: “Your brother is still waiting to take a shower.” Kid 1: ... read more



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Connolly US Road Trip
August 14th 2008

What's hot: Jackalope. Travel lesson of the day: Build it and they will come. from Kathy: This day, August 4, deserves another entry for our return visit to Wall Drug in Wall, SD, and to Interior, SD, the birthplace of Clark Griswold, our little Prairie Dog mascot. Whether you’re going east or west on Rt. 90. you’ll begin to encounter signs—lots of them—for Wall Drug at least 125 miles before you get there. Any Pittsburghers here old enough to remember the Burma Shave signs that lined the pre-Rt. 79 roads to Erie, Pennsylvania? Or does anyone remember the Mail Pouch Tobacco signs on the sides of barns? Wall Drug is perhaps one of the clearest cases of build-it-and-they-will-come I’ve ever seen. According to its Web site, it started at the worst of the Depression and they ... read more



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Connolly US Road Trip
August 14th 2008

What's hot: Devil’s Tower What's not: Hog Heaven Travel lesson of the day: Vegetarians are not appreciated in the Hamburger Nation. Odometer reading: 6,053 in the morning, 6,429 at night from Kathy: Herds of antelope play in the fields along the highway beyond Gillette, WY (I call them ‘cantaloupe’ to irritate the kids). We drive. Small oil wells pump. Coal cars line the endless train tracks. I hope I remembered to turn off the unnecessary electronics in the house before I left. What is the difference between oil and propane and natural gas? Blueberries and huckleberries are advertised everywhere in these August places and I wonder about my berry plants back home. We are on the way to Devil’s Tower National Monument and there are five Christian churches hovering along ... read more



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Connolly US Road Trip
August 10th 2008

Today's top sight: Little Bighorn National Monument Travel lesson of the day: The road looks different when it's in the rear view mirror. from Kathy: Welcome to the Zen zone of a long drive. Like the proverbial butterfly that will sit on your shoulder if you wait long enough and quietly enough, a meditation finds me on Rt. 90 in Montana and Wyoming. I am beginning to summarize what I've seen and experienced. (Some of that meditation is at the end of this entry and there's more to come. ) But for now, the odometer on the Floonia Roadster tells me that 6,053 car miles have passed since July 6 (doesn't include about 2200 cruising miles). I realize that I am traveling the part of the road described by Robert Pirsig in his classic, Zen and ... read more



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Connolly US Road Trip
August 8th 2008

What's hot: Interstate 90. What's not: The return drive. Travel lesson of the day: There’s more to see! from Kathy: As we drove away from the boat at 10 a.m., Paul said, “Goodbye, Pacific Ocean.” It brought a touch of mortality to this trip, for most of which I’ve been in a state of never-endingness. With this goodbye, I realize we are now turning back towards home. Now we are on Rt. 90 W in Seattle, WA, which will take us halfway across the country. We already have about 5,150 miles on the trip odometer and that doesn’t count the 1100 miles each way to Alaska and the Yukon. We have been in our little bubble-for-four, aka the Floonian Roadster, off and on since July 6. Who are we? A reluctant 18-year-old, a 15-year-old in hot ... read more



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Connolly US Road Trip
August 6th 2008

* Note: this is not the last Connolly-US-Road-Trip entry--we just didn't want to keep this exciting news to ourselves another day! From Paul, King of Floonia: As you know, the Connolly-US-Road-Trip announced a "Name the Prairie Dog" Contest some weeks ago. The King and His prize committee contemplated the many fine entries. We thought about it so hard We got a headache! So instead of enduring the pain, We have decided to do what We always did in Our days as a Cub Scout Leader. Everyone gets a prize! And now the moment you've been waiting for, the Runners Up, the Special Award, and First Prize--in that order. First Runners Up: These contestants will receive their very own soft, cuddly, stuffed prairie dogs! (We bought them in South Dakota but when we looked at the tag, ... read more



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Connolly US Road Trip
August 6th 2008

What's hot: Deep relaxation What's not: Long day at sea Travel lesson of the day: We live in a t-shirt nation. from Kathy: From a Ketchikan departure at noon on July 31 until noon on August 1, we traveled 470 miles at a speed of more than 20 knots. Nonetheless, we were still hours away from our last port visit in Victoria, British Columbia. The mood on the ship changed from laid-back to last-day—people lining up to review their bills, the high-priced art show was packed away. The kids slept until 1 p.m. Paul confessed he was bored. I would have been bored, too, but for the amount of time I spent blogging. I am grateful for the good feedback--I'm certain that the writing made me pay more attention than I would have otherwise. The writing ... read more






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