I hate to do this, but this journal is going to be private and for family or invites from now on.

The reason is I found out someone is reading this whom I do not want knowing my business.


This was meant to be something fun and would record our travels. It is both of those things. But I recently found out, it's also a way for people who are toxic to keep tabs on us.

Therefore, this blog is now being made private. If you would like to read it, just say something and I will add you. I'm not out to make friends here; I need no compliments, no continued involvement from a reader.




To these people (who know who they both are) I say the following.

Because of your continued attempts to simultaneously solicit pity and guilt and to hurt someone, it becomes all the more important to cease your knowledge of our locations. I am certain you remember why we wouldn't want you to know where we are,

Any therapist would tell you to cease a relationship with someone as angry and controlling as you two are, but especially one of you. If a boy/girlfriend, wife/husband were to do the kind of things you did, that would be called abuse. Well, it's called that same thing when you do it. Your relation and DNA does not entitle you to treat anyone the way you did. Giving ultimatums, and ordering someone to do what you say and when with only selfish reasons will cause people to cut you off, and so you deserve. No one can be forgiven for what they will not admit to. And your passive aggressive attempts at guilt bought you ambivalence and caused you to be shunned, as you well deserve. You two burned your bridges, and the person on the other side is not going to rebuild something YOU destroyed. That expectation is asinine.

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