The following dialogue finished only five minutes ago. While working in my ‘office’ (CARE’s dining room in Pagak), Duony enters the room. He looks at me serious and asks the dreadful question… ‘So, Mario, do you have wife in your country?’ ‘Nope, why?’ Duony smiles like somebody that just won the lottery. ‘I have Nuer girl for you. It will only cost you 30 cows…’ ‘Thirty cows????’ ‘Or the equivalent in dollars, no problem…’ Wiping the (virtual) tears of laughter from my eyes, I thank Duony for the offer… ‘Seriously’, he adds, ‘Nuer women are good. They faithful, work, clean the house, take care of children, you just have to relax…’ ‘So, they do everything?’ ‘Well, no’, he replies, ‘we men have all responsibilities’. If your father in law sees that you really love the girl,
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